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Old Jul 04, 2007, 12:12 AM
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I used to SI and I still occasionally struggle with the thoughts. My worst times are usually when the stress in my life gets unbarable. It has been four years since I SI last. I found that the longer you go without SI the easier it gets. I had to sometimes go half hour by half hour just to get through the day. I am not going to lie, It is hard work to stop. I am still to this day not sure how I stopped. Something just finally clicked in my head. Maybe to because I admitted the real reason I SI. For me I did it for the attention. Negative attention was better than no attention at all. If I was in the hospital someone was there to care for me. The attention seeking thing somehow went into a way to cope with stress. I am getting off track here, sorry. Anyways I want to give everyone here hope and support if I can. I am so proud of everyone making a step to get help!!! ((((EVERYONE))))

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Old Jul 04, 2007, 12:49 AM
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Good job on 4 years. I want to try to give some hope
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Old Jul 04, 2007, 12:50 AM
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I want to try to give some hope I want to try to give some hope
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Old Jul 04, 2007, 06:36 AM
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yes it`s really good to see people who decided to take matters in their hands and stop ocnvincing themselves they are victims.
it `s great.
getting from bad to good is the process for discovering yourself, you powerful soul.

this is a good example.
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Old Jul 04, 2007, 06:50 AM
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Congratulations on doing so well!! I wish it was so easy for me. I'm the one who does it for the "emotional" release. I am very secretive about it. My old T used to know when I did it because he could read me so well. Besides him though, I "stuffed" my form of coping mechanism. I've been SI since I was in junior high, and geez I'm almost 40.

Congrats again!!

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Old Jul 05, 2007, 12:59 AM
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Hi twirls01,

What a beautiful and strong post. I’ve been free from harming myself for 5 months now. But like you know the thoughts still linger. It’s stories like yours that remind me of how possible recovery really is. Thank you again for sharing and I hope your strength gets more and more solid.

Hugs. ~ Bee
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Old Jul 05, 2007, 09:28 AM
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I want to try to give some hope
thank you for sharing, and congrats on four years!!
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