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Old Mar 04, 2008, 10:35 PM
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k so i hav a chice 2 get gelp n i talked 2 my health teacher today about my probs n i was open to him kinda but i think he is thinkin im usin drugs which im so dumb cuz i cut myself n i got high how dumb n then i cut myself more but i didnt tell him that so tomorrow i hav to tell him 3 things i want him to do to help me n i dont know wat to tell him. any suggestions on wat to do? dont know wat to do dont know wat to do
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Old Mar 04, 2008, 10:42 PM
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This may be stating the obvious but he can't help you if you don't be honest. Give it a go and see.
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Old Mar 05, 2008, 12:11 AM
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that was a huge step you took trusting him.... maybe tell him that you don't feel safe telling him everything right now... see where it goes from there...lyn
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Old Mar 06, 2008, 01:37 AM
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Old Mar 06, 2008, 05:21 AM
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you did really well taking that step of talking to your teacher and opening up. It takes a lot of guts to do that.

My only suggestion on what to do is that you could say that there are things you have to tell him, but that it is overwhelming at the moment and you want to take it slow. Then just say a little bit and see where it goes. Otherwise you could write down the 3 things you want him to do on a piece of paper and give it to him; don't say anything and let him respond. It might make it a little easier??? Best of luck.
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Old Mar 06, 2008, 07:04 AM
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i dont know really trusting him was a big step forward and as far as what to tell him be honest he will have great respect for you its hard when i first started opening up it was all so very hard i didnt know if i could trust anyone but then i finally came to relize u have to open the book to read the pages basically tell him whts on ur mind i found this to work best i would go to library at school type a few pages about how you and why and if you trust him enough show them to him HOPE THIS HELPS
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Old Mar 06, 2008, 07:12 AM
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yeah its hard to open up to people at school sometimes but relax write down how you feel and turn it in to him i hope you get through this i really do good luck
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All I can say is I hope you get the help you need.
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