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Jun 16, 2008, 01:32 PM
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People pretend that I matter.
They pretend to be my friend. I've learned the lesson, though: When someone else punches me in the face it doesn't matter. When someone smashes me into the floor it doesn't matter. When someone beats me up it doesn't matter. When someone burns me it doesn't matter. When someone cuts my skin it doesn't matter. Logically then, when I hurt myself it shouldn't matter either 
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Jun 16, 2008, 01:34 PM
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(((((Griffe)))))
Although I feel the same too, can we share a cave or something and ride it out.
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#3
Jun 16, 2008, 01:35 PM
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these are wrong lessons, but hard to unlearn
 You do matter my friend  ((((((( griffe ))))))))  
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Jun 16, 2008, 01:47 PM
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You do matter!!!
You matter quite alot!! I'm sorry that people have been so cruel to you..you don't deserve it at all. You are very kind and have helped me through some rough patches..and you have helped countless other people here too!! I am here for you Griffe and everyone here on pc is here for you too. Feel free to pm me if you want to talk or just vent..I am here for you rember that and rember you do matter ALOT!! 
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#5
Jun 16, 2008, 02:25 PM
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((( Everyone )))
Thanks.I'd love to curl up in a den and try to wait this out Purple. Need to vent a bit... Are the cuts others give to me invisible? Are the bruises others give to me invisible? Are these cigarette burns invisible? If they are invisible then who cares if I hurt myself. It doesn't matter if I hurt myself. People don't like me. Only SI makes sense. |
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#6
Jun 16, 2008, 02:43 PM
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I like you Griffe and there are lots of people here on pc that like you too!!!
It will be okay..keep fighting those urges..keep venting here..I am listening and so are others. It will be okay we hear you. |
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#7
Jun 16, 2008, 03:02 PM
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((((((((((((( griffe )))))))))))))
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Jun 16, 2008, 03:16 PM
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((((((((griffe)))))))
Your pain isn't invisible to us here. We care, keep posting if you can. Take care, J
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"One by one, as they march, our comrades vanish from our sight, seized by the silent orders of omnipotent death. Very brief is the time in which we can help them, in which their happiness or misery is decided. Be it ours to shed sunshine on their path, to lighten their sorrows by the balm of sympathy, to give them the pure joy of a never-tiring affection, to stregthen failing courage, to instill faith in hours of despair." -Bertrand Russell With love and hope, <~/J\~> |
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#9
Jun 16, 2008, 06:16 PM
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Cut a bit.
Not that it matters. I'm just Vince. Just me. It doesn't matter when it's me. If someone else got hurt, oh, that would be tragic. But not Vince, he's worthless  Why do I have to be like this. Why can't I be good. Why can't I go a day without screwing up like this. Because I'm stupid, that's why. Sorry to waste everyone's time.
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Jun 16, 2008, 06:41 PM
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(((((((griffe))))))))
You're not stupid, you're human. And important to all of us here, you are in pain. We care about you and don't want to see you suffer. You're not wasting our time. We want to help. Take care, J
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"One by one, as they march, our comrades vanish from our sight, seized by the silent orders of omnipotent death. Very brief is the time in which we can help them, in which their happiness or misery is decided. Be it ours to shed sunshine on their path, to lighten their sorrows by the balm of sympathy, to give them the pure joy of a never-tiring affection, to stregthen failing courage, to instill faith in hours of despair." -Bertrand Russell With love and hope, <~/J\~> |
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#11
Jun 17, 2008, 06:08 AM
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Of course you matter Vince.
Some of my posts you have replied to, some of the advice you have given me over the past few months have mattered loads to me and have made such an impact on me, and I'm sure I'm not the only one on here that can say that... Surely that makes a difference, because it has certainly made a difference to me. You matter to me, you matter to us, your not stupid and your certainly not worthless... please see this. Be good to yourself, you deserve it, babyg xXx
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Jun 17, 2008, 03:40 PM
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((((((((((( griffe ))))))))))))
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Jun 17, 2008, 05:13 PM
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My 'friends' reminded me today that I'm stupid  And they 'helped' me with my wheelchair so I tumbled down a short bit of stairs  They can hurt me. Why shouldn't I hurt me? It doesn't matter to other people if they hurt me. So it won't matter when I hurt me. People walk all over me so doesn't matter if I hurt me too. Others can justify me hurting - can't I  
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