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Magnate
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Jan 04, 2005 at 04:15 PM
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This isn't one of those "I'm giving up and not going to quit" posts. I sincerely want to know everyone's reasons for wanting to quit. No reason is stupid. No reason is too small. I just want to know what makes you want to quit. (Or what finally made you decide to quit if you already have quit)
Why do you want to quit si?? __________________  Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name ~Alanis Morissette |
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Jan 04, 2005 at 05:02 PM
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The more I cut, the more I agree with the demons inside me that hate me..that don't deal with life, that hate reality. Cutting means keeping myself isolated from the life that I truely want.
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Jan 04, 2005 at 05:22 PM
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I want to quit cutting for my best friend.she has put up with me cutting and helped me since she found out i did it and i feel i owe it to her to stop cutting. i also want to be able to wear short sleeves shirts without having people starring at me like im crazy.
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Grand Poohbah
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Location: Arizona
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Jan 04, 2005 at 05:25 PM
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because I don't like the look a guys face when he finds out what I do...
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Jan 04, 2005 at 05:32 PM
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I don't want to hurt the people I love ...
Also the looks on people's faces 
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 04, 2005 at 05:38 PM
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I soo know what you mean FB!
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Jan 04, 2005 at 06:10 PM
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Angela,
I wanted to quit along with you because like you said, I thought it would be pretty cool if we quit together. But it's the wrong season for me to be trying to quit. I'm sorry. 
__________________ “We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.” – John H. Groberg 
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Magnate
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Location: Utah
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Jan 04, 2005 at 06:43 PM
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Wendy,
You don't owe me an apology. Your decision about si is about YOU, not me.  And you have to be ready, all in your own time. __________________ Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name ~Alanis Morissette |
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Jan 04, 2005 at 06:56 PM
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I want to quit because I've already scarred my body, probably for life, and each time I was going deeper and larger than the time before, and I can't take any more scars, I'm running out of room. So I decided to quit. Going on 5 weeks now without, and have only felt the urge 2 in the past three weeks. So I think I'm doing good.
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 04, 2005 at 08:15 PM
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I wanted to quit because I made a promise to myself to try to do things that I know are healthy and good for me. I have had a lot of success with not cutting though my desire is very high right now. However, I spoke with my T and told her the things I needed to do to take care of myself so I don't get to a cutting place. Better med management by me, eating at least three nutritious things per day, Drinking my water, taking my vits, slowing down at work and processing before acting, having a mid day "meal" away from my work or desk. Not while driving in the car being paged with 2 cell phones ringing, but in solitude. I see I am in danger of starting up again. The longer I go the easier it gets. I am motivated by scars slowly fading. I am motivated because I know it's not good for me and I want to be healthy.
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Grand Member
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Jan 04, 2005 at 10:38 PM
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I want to quit because I have to. The meds I'm taking and this major reality check I had the first of December have made me see things a little more clearly. I cannot SI and take this med.
Forced quitting I guess, but I'm still glad. Take care all, Kimberly. |
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Magnate
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Jan 04, 2005 at 10:53 PM
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Hey Kimberly! Long time to talk!!! How are you? (PM me if you want)
****** S Q U I S H ********** __________________ Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name ~Alanis Morissette |
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 04, 2005 at 11:29 PM
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these are all such cool reasons. KTP, you mean the warfarin? Yes, if that is it it could kill you.
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Magnate
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Jan 04, 2005 at 11:40 PM
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EV, I LOVE what you said!
Everyone, I really like reading your reasons __________________ Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name ~Alanis Morissette |
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Jan 05, 2005 at 12:02 AM
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Thanks
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Grand Member
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Jan 05, 2005 at 12:24 AM
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Yep Wisewoman...that's the dreaded drug. Forced me to quit. I guess in this case it's a woman who wants to quit SI'ing's best friend. Sigh. But I'm still glad (in a way)....
hope all of you are hanging in there! much love, Kimberly. |
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Jan 05, 2005 at 08:26 AM
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because my partner will leave me if i don't quit.
which i am totally resenting. because i really need it. and because i don't like being under his thumb like that, being given an ultimatum. i know that sounds all wrong, cos i should be grateful i have a good reason to stop... and that he cares enough to get tough, but hey, that's the irrationality of human feelings i guess! |
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 05, 2005 at 05:59 PM
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oh meowsers that totally sucks! *hugs*
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Jan 05, 2005 at 08:59 PM
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(meow would it be different if your T insisted you quit?) I wish you could feel like you don't have to
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Jan 10, 2005 at 04:21 PM
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i used to always put the cuts on my ankles so nobody would see them. but the last time i did, i had cut so deep that the socks were sticking and i had to let them air out while i slept. i thought nobody knew i cut, i would always say i had accidently scraped myself. well, that morning my son came in my room while i was in bed and he saw my ankles and started crying. he said, " ARE YOU TRYING TO CUT THEM OFF?!" thats when i decided to stop. i just hate the fact that it took him seeing it to realize how bad it was. (even though i have cut a few times since then on my ribs, i do not intend to revisit my ankles) and i havent cut at all in over 4 months.
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