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#1
Jan 28, 2005, 02:34 AM
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i think a lot of the things i've been feeling lately have been situational... above and beyond the regular swings... why after so long did i start SI again?
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#2
Jan 28, 2005, 07:14 AM
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Sometimes there's a need that's not getting met any other way except through SI behaviors. I think only you can figure out why you started to SI again, though.
I myself struggle with cutting and it takes everything I have to not do it...don't beat yourself up over it...you'll worsen your SI behaviors I think. Just pick yourself up and start over again....Good luck.
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Jan 28, 2005, 11:30 AM
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Sometimes you can relapse. I know that's what happened to me when my roomate committed suicide last year... *Sigh*
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#4
Jan 28, 2005, 01:37 PM
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I know people struggle with it everyday. I did to for so long... and got some "help" to stop the cutting... but it was oh so hard. Now that I slipped again, I want to keep doing it. I know inside that I shouldn't and I remember the things I used to do to distract or release tension to help me to not cut and it seems like they don't work anymore. I really don't want to get to the point that I struggle the way I did. The circumstances that I'm living in now are ridiculously stupid... I'll spare the details... and they're not gonna be fixed any time soon. Sorry... just thought I'd spew a little.
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#5
Jan 28, 2005, 05:49 PM
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You're welcome to vent here as much as you like (or as little). It's your choice. I'm sorry that you are struggling right now.
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“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.” – John H. Groberg 
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#6
Jan 28, 2005, 06:14 PM
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Spew all you want! I'm here for you!
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#7
Jan 28, 2005, 08:49 PM
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I am sorry you are having such trouble. It's okay to share it.
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#8
Jan 29, 2005, 02:16 AM
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can someone please suggest a diff coping mech... i dont want to do this every day till dr appt. what has helped you?
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#9
Jan 29, 2005, 10:38 AM
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I have some suggestions, but I'd rather not post them here... I can PM them to you if you'd like *hugs*
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#10
Jan 29, 2005, 10:50 AM
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Aw, rem, I have been struggling with this again lately too. I need to find better coping strategies, but sometimes it's the only one that really brings relief. When I can get through my distress without doing it, I usually feel pretty proud of myself, so that sometimes helps. Good luck to you. I am so glad that you do have an appointment fairly soon. Take care!
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 complic8d"Don't say I'm out of touch with this rampant chaos-your reality I know well what lies beyond my secret refuge The nightmare I built my own world to escape." ♥evanescence♥
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#11
Jan 29, 2005, 11:02 AM
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sure thing spaz... and thanks for the words of comfort guys.
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