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Old Apr 23, 2010, 11:40 PM
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Can we talk about our sexual fantasies here?

If so, to what extent?

I really need to talk to ppl about them.

I feel so alone in them, left to my own devices.

I can't afford a therapist.

ty,

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Old Apr 23, 2010, 11:57 PM
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Nothing in the rules says you can't...good idea!
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Old Apr 24, 2010, 01:52 AM
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I would start with general talk followed by certain details that might need to be shared for better understand for those that may try to offer support help or advice.

Many of us here on PC are open minded and can talk/share with out judgment.
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Old Apr 24, 2010, 07:32 AM
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We can't really work as therapists since we're all in the same boat as you but we can listen :-)
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Old Apr 24, 2010, 09:20 PM
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okay. ty.

I will not use any street language or nasty words, but how graphic can I be?

Can I mention anatomy or techniques?

Just asking first.

I really don't want to offend anyone.

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Old Apr 25, 2010, 10:40 AM
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Yes you can use the technical terms for body parts as well as specific techniques you find exciting as we are all adults here and we know that this particular forum is for mature sexual talk.... so just start and we will take it from there... no one should be offended as long as the talk stays in this forum and this forum only.
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 05:59 PM
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Okay, here I go.

I have this recurring fantasy that I am invited by Data to go to his quarters and experience his "multiple techniques" and "broad variety of pleasuring". btw, I got in trouble with yahoo for talking about this.

He is doing things to me that I only imagine in my dreams.

I wonder if these "techniques" include **** sex?

I wonder if he has vibrators in his fingers, his tongue, or his penis?

I found a website where a woman was blogging about a dildo that was like Data's penis---creamy-soft and slender. There was a picture of it, too.

I even imagine him having an option where he can impregnate women with replicated sperm.

I imagine he even makes his own lube; he doesn't need ky jelly.

Feel free to add any of your own ideas, please.

And t his was hard to share with a group.

ty,

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Old Apr 25, 2010, 10:41 PM
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You really must be hooked on Data - lol... and who would blame you with all the special things he could perform for your pleasure.

So tell me - how did you become a Data Fan? - in more ways than one.
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Old Apr 26, 2010, 07:27 PM
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one thing to remember here though is we do have underage teens that watch and even submit comments on this board so please be respectful and as clean as you can.
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Old Apr 26, 2010, 07:48 PM
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one thing to remember here though is we do have underage teens that watch and even submit comments on this board so please be respectful and as clean as you can.
Why is that?

On a couple communities that I visit they have "mature" forums that require a password to view/post. Keeps the kiddos safe and we adults can speak more frankly.
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Old Apr 28, 2010, 05:18 AM
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thank you Yoda!

Nothing I do is right anywhere.

I will DELETE this post, fine!

Billi (frustrated!)
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Old Apr 28, 2010, 05:20 AM
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one thing to remember here though is we do have underage teens that watch and even submit comments on this board so please be respectful and as clean as you can.
Bebop, I warned eveyrone in here about this beforehand and asked first.

And I did not use any stree words.

Apparently we still have some ppl in her ewho are offended!

Okay, fine.

I won't post this trash anymore and i will delete what I posted!

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Old Apr 28, 2010, 05:22 AM
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sorry I obviously can't delete this.

Wish I could.

so sorry if i offended anyone here after I went out of my way to make sure I didn't!

fine!

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Old Apr 28, 2010, 03:42 PM
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Bebop was not commenting on your post directly - she was just stating a fact as to let you know.
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Old May 02, 2010, 11:33 PM
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It felt like a comment.

to me.

Okay, so it's a fact.

I thought Doc John said dont read anything in here if it's triggering?

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I thought Doc John said dont read anything in here if it's triggering?
That is true... but then again we all know we dont always do as we should - human nature.

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Old May 03, 2010, 02:52 PM
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Billi_leli~

IMO, I think you attended to your thread just fine. You asked, then forewarned, waited for confirmation, received, then proceeded.

Your inclusion on all that you were saying was perfectly fine, (as were the replies and encouragements you received).
Please feel free to continue in the manner which you already were.

(I think Bebop was merely reminding us, that's all). I don't think she was necessarily focusing on what YOU were saying..just a general reminder.

It's all good..please continue.....

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Old May 03, 2010, 05:09 PM
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Well, I dont' feel comfortable anymore with this---esp. cause rhapsody seemed to go along with bebop.

If it's offensive to ANYONE here, I will NOT continue.

I will repeat doc john's words (in so many words) don't read if triggered!

Okay?

Billi (exasperated)

A to those who can appreciate what I am trying and trying NOT to do!!!!

B.
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Thanks for this!
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Old May 04, 2010, 12:41 AM
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Well, I dont' feel comfortable anymore with this---esp. cause rhapsody seemed to go along with bebop.
I am sorry - When did I go along with Bebop? - I thought I was just letting you know that she was only stating some thing and that it was ok for you to precede as you wanted / needed.

You can ask any one on here... I am an open book when it comes to the issues of sex - as I feel that we learn through sharing and asking.

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Old May 04, 2010, 08:58 AM
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I am sorry - When did I go along with Bebop? - I thought I was just letting you know that she was only stating some thing and that it was ok for you to precede as you wanted / needed.

You can ask any one on here... I am an open book when it comes to the issues of sex - as I feel that we learn through sharing and asking.

Yeppers...Rhaps is that, alright...(open, that is), and quite supportive.
Maybe if you read again the support you were already receiving from the beginning of your thread, you'll notice the encouragement expressed.

I'm sorry that one person has killed it for you......

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