[einundzwanzig]

I'm not sure if this topic is appropriate, in that I am fairly new to this site and I don't know what is allowed to be said on here- FYI.

But here it goes...

I'm having trouble understanding some people's certain fetishes. I know fetishes are subjective in that they differ from person to person. But some are just strange to me...

I admit, I have certain fetishes that some people would think are strange- for instance, the masochism.

But I was in my room the other day I was angry, so I started yelling at my computer in German (I tend to yell inanimate objects in German when I'm stressed and/or angry). And my roommate's boyfriend came into my room. I ddn't even realize anyone was at the apertment, but he apparently comes over any time he feels like it... Grrr (I don't particularly like him)... but he asked me if everything was okay, and embarrassed I said yea, I'm just mad because my laptop decided to freeze up when I was working on a 6 page paper, so I couldn't save it (I'm still fuming about this) so I said sorry, I didn't know anyone was here, but he said nah, it's fine, between you and me, I think it's hot when I girl yells in German, or something to that effect, and then proceeded to tell me about his fetish for German women lol... (I don't think his gf speaks German) so I didn't know what to say at this point. I just thought it was funny. Luckly, his gf and my other roommates came back, so all was well.

But yea, do any of you know anybody that has some different kind of fetishes, not ones that are common like sadomasochism and such?

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[sugahorse1]

I don't know anyone with strange fetishes, but I'm a German girl too. Think I should subject my bf to some German swearing. I think men like it, as a lot of porn movies are in German, and they like the sound of it.
I am absolutely hooked on girl-on-girl scenes.

[Bridger]

I get the German thing A LOT from Americans. Holy cow are people into German. I always thought french was the language of laugh, not this sledghammer of a language.

I have a bunch of triggers, though, I wouldn't really call them fetishes. A fetish in my mind is something you cannot do without.

As far as triggers go, the color white would be one. As in white bedclothes, white lingery (or however you spell that, pristine and clean, it symbolizes innocence, and who does not like to corrupt some innocence.

[einundzwanzig]

Thanks guys for replying

Triggers? That makes it sound like it's a bad thing? To me, trigger sounds like you're trying to get rid of it because it causes you anxiety? Is this the case?

The other night, I was at a bar and this guy heard me talking on the phone to someone in German, and he instantly thought it was a greenlight to hit on me... obviosuly, I blew him off... in not in a good way

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[Yoda]

I have a fetish involving my feet and <fill in the blank>

[Bridger]

Originally Posted by einundzwanzig

Thanks guys for replying

Triggers? That makes it sound like it's a bad thing? To me, trigger sounds like you're trying to get rid of it because it causes you anxiety? Is this the case?

The other night, I was at a bar and this guy heard me talking on the phone to someone in German, and he instantly thought it was a greenlight to hit on me... obviosuly, I blew him off... in not in a good way

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Naw. I see triggers as neutral, something that causes a reaction. May be a bad reaction, may be good one. In this case, it's a good one.

[iluvyaoi]

Hmm, I'll call them triggers, too, because fetishes are something you must have in order to have sex. Anyways, some of my triggers would be the guy crossdressing. I find that really really hot! But even more hotter? Guys having sexual/intimate relations!!! The idea of two or more guys hooking up in such way really is a turn on for me (girl here). And I'm a Sadist (: also a bit of a Masochist, but lean more towards the dominant side. And hahaha I find the German laguage really sexy! Along with French. That's why I'm taking French, and I bought a book that's supposed to teach you the German language (:

[einundzwanzig]

Fair enough....

iluvyaoi, what was the name of that book you got? Yeah, French is suppose to be a "romance" language I believe, where as in my opinion German is "the langauage of dominance" As for me, I'm not dominant, in the bedroom, outside the bedroom is a different story lol- but when making love i'd prefer the guy to domnante... so I feel the guy should yell at me in German, not the other way around lol.


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[with or without you]

Wie geht's, einundzwanzig? I took German briefly in high school and college, and I actually find it to be quite beautiful when spoken in a certain way...in a softer voice, I guess. Not in the stereotypical dominant tone. haha

[ariesmars]

Originally Posted by iluvyaoi

Hmm, I'll call them triggers, too, because fetishes are something you must have in order to have sex. Anyways, some of my triggers would be the guy crossdressing. I find that really really hot! But even more hotter? Guys having sexual/intimate relations!!! The idea of two or more guys hooking up in such way really is a turn on for me (girl here). And I'm a Sadist (: also a bit of a Masochist, but lean more towards the dominant side. And hahaha I find the German laguage really sexy! Along with French. That's why I'm taking French, and I bought a book that's supposed to teach you the German language (:

I never really tried wearing womens clothes (id like to wear a skirt and some heels, that be fun) but if it would help me have a girlfriend id let her dress me anyway she wants. I do wear tights/pantyhose but that is considered legwear not a female thing. what i find sexy is tights/latex on women...ooohhhh.....

[einundzwanzig]

I agree,German does have that beautiful side to it. I also like German humor as well... I think I'm getting off topic lol... FETISHES....


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[iluvyaoi]

Originally Posted by ariesmars

I never really tried wearing womens clothes (id like to wear a skirt and some heels, that be fun) but if it would help me have a girlfriend id let her dress me anyway she wants. :D I do wear tights/pantyhose but that is considered legwear not a female thing. what i find sexy is tights/latex on women...ooohhhh.....:throb:

^/////////^ Awwww!!! Heehee you'd like to wear a skirt and some heels? That is sooo cute! (sorry if this is insulting :o) You should really try it sometime...but where to get them could be a problem for you. Wow, it's so amazing that you would let your girl do that if it meant having one xp! I wish I'll find a guy that would be so linient like that :)

[iluvyaoi]

Originally Posted by einundzwanzig

Fair enough....

iluvyaoi, what was the name of that book you got? Yeah, French is suppose to be a "romance" language I believe, where as in my opinion German is "the langauage of dominance" As for me, I'm not dominant, in the bedroom, outside the bedroom is a different story lol- but when making love i'd prefer the guy to domnante... so I feel the guy should yell at me in German, not the other way around lol.


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The book simply enough is called German: All the Way lol. I know just two phrases in German, but hopefully I'll be fluent in it once I'm older. I'm fluent in Spanish and English and I think I'm middway for French. One of the reasons why I really like the German language is 'cause it sounds so rough ;)

But just to make this clear, I'm still not an adult (in other words, still a virgin)...that's why I said my "fetishes" are more as triggers 'cause it's what really gets me turned on lol (along with some other stuff that is too extreme to say)

[einundzwanzig]

Yeah, I have those "too extreme to say" fetishes too. Some of which, I feel guilty for having. Oh well. I see you're fluent in the"romance" languages, I wish I was sometimes. But German works for me lol (well I don't really have a choice lol) and it fits more "personality" better, if a langauage can even do that?? than French or Italian/Spanish etc.

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[iluvyaoi]

Originally Posted by einundzwanzig

Yeah, I have those "too extreme to say" fetishes too. Some of which, I feel guilty for having. Oh well. I see you're fluent in the"romance" languages, I wish I was sometimes. But German works for me lol (well I don't really have a choice lol) and it fits more "personality" better, if a langauage can even do that?? than French or Italian/Spanish etc.

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Meeeee tooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! I also feel guilty for having those "extreme 'fetishes' " ! Like, I've told two of my friends abouth those really extreme "fetishes", but that's only 'cause 1) they won't judge and 2) because it turns them on also xD! But I have another account on Yaoi-haven.com and in there I talk about my extreme "fetishes" as if it's nothing of big news...'cause really, it isnt' :P (in that website)!!!

Yeah, I'm actually Mexican, so of course I know My language :P it's my native tongue, but I no longer live there :/ but at least I learned a new language (English) and I started taking French later on. :). I personally think Spanish is the best language 'cause it has alot of sason lol don't know how to translate that, but it'd be along the lines of spicy. But I'm sure I think that because I'm Mexican :P

[Indie'sOK]

I don't think I have a "fetish", persay. I like how you call it a trigger. That just better suits what it is, to me personally. Not a bad thing, just....a trigger. Mine is one of the more "extreme" ones, and if you've seen a thread I started in this forum a couple months ago, you know what it is Not a big deal, just a personal preference.

[flawlessimperfectionsmft]

I have heard of furries before. People who want to dress up in like mascot like outfits and have sex with them on. That is a strange fetish to me. And the Sexual Machism (spell check if I even used the right word) seems to be almost too common to be considered a strange fetish lol.

[einundzwanzig]

Yea, sexual masochism is pretty common now. I guess its more of a lifestyle than a fetish. But there are common fetishes like foot fetish and uncommon ones, the reason they are uncommon is because people are ashamed of them so they don't admit to them, I think some of these "uncommon" fetishes would be more common if people wouldn't be afraid to admit to them....



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[dillpickle1983]

Well this is embarrassing but I have the ABDL fetish, (Adult Baby & Diaper Lover)

Many people will think i'm sick... I wet the bed nearly every night and wear diapers for that reason. But I also wear them during the day.