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Old Mar 02, 2011, 02:46 PM
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Nah not at all, none of us are as eloquent when talking as we are online. You have so much more time to think when typing a post, you can go back and edit, delete stuff you were about to say etc. Its one of the reasons we are all here. Besides all that, listening is important too - people like to talk about what they are proud of.
Grab someone of the forum to skype with and practice if you are very worried. Everyone here has thier own issues and wont think any less of you.

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Old Mar 02, 2011, 03:05 PM
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Nah not at all, none of us are as eloquent when talking as we are online. You have so much more time to think when typing a post, you can go back and edit, delete stuff you were about to say etc. Its one of the reasons we are all here. Besides all that, listening is important too - people like to talk about what they are proud of.
Grab someone of the forum to skype with and practice if you are very worried. Everyone here has thier own issues and wont think any less of you.
Thanks for your advice Thank you so much I'm grateful I get advice from people from this forum including you. I could practise with someone to help me to talk well.
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Old Mar 02, 2011, 03:10 PM
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Yeh i find it much easier than doing it in person, im always tonguetied and shy when face to face, but can chat normally on the phone or over the internet
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Yeh i find it much easier than doing it in person, im always tonguetied and shy when face to face, but can chat normally on the phone or over the internet
Same here I'm not alone.
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Old Mar 02, 2011, 04:43 PM
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Exactly, thats what the forum is all about. It has certainly helped me.
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Exactly, thats what the forum is all about. It has certainly helped me.
me too................
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(((Happy))))
My daughter is 22 and has had several boyfriends, and she gets pretty low when there is a break-up. She is quiet, but once you know her she is a good blend of being an intro-extrovert.
I have found these things to be (T)rue as I know them. If you are good to yourself...its attractive. Doesn't mean you have to be overly anything..like assertive, beautiful,...all those things we tend to put worth into. It just means to be selfish with self. A good selfish...is a win-win situation. I understand that "belonging" is a big priority of life..a heirarchy of needs....
Remember that meeting someone on line is good practice for communicating...and also it may mean..."geeze, what if I meet this someone face to face!"
Take care of self...and the rest will take care of itself.
good advice from all the posts...
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(((Happy))))
My daughter is 22 and has had several boyfriends, and she gets pretty low when there is a break-up. She is quiet, but once you know her she is a good blend of being an intro-extrovert.
I have found these things to be (T)rue as I know them. If you are good to yourself...its attractive. Doesn't mean you have to be overly anything..like assertive, beautiful,...all those things we tend to put worth into. It just means to be selfish with self. A good selfish...is a win-win situation. I understand that "belonging" is a big priority of life..a heirarchy of needs....
Remember that meeting someone on line is good practice for communicating...and also it may mean..."geeze, what if I meet this someone face to face!"
Take care of self...and the rest will take care of itself.
good advice from all the posts...
Thanks for your advice
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