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Hey guys, I know I haven't been here for a while, sorry.
Well basically, I started to realise that I'm attracted to girls and I think that I like a girl at my school. I think she's really great and I am attracted to her. I also find myself checking girls out but I never really thought about it before. I fell in love with a guy, and now I think I like a girl and I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or bicurious or my hormones are going crazy. I've seen two girl friends naked (we were in a bath together, it's complicated but there was nothing sexual about it) and it turned me on, and then the other day I accidentally saw a naked girl on someone's phone and that turned me on too. But then I told a couple of friends at school that I think I'm bisexual and one of them called me an emo which I find kind of offensive because I'm definitely not an emo and I didn't know only emo's could be bisexual ![]() So I was thinking about my past to see any indications that I might be bisexual and then I remembered that I've got this thing that people might think I'm a lesbian for some reason, so I always try and not be affectionate around girls. I guess that's my fear of being judged or something. As you might be able to tell, I'm quite quite confused and I just needed to rant really, get all my thoughts into order. |
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![]() First off, There is nothing wrong with being bisexual! Ok, got that? Now repeat with me... ![]() Being bisexual doesn't mean you must be emo. Being bisexual doesn't make you less of a person. Being bisexual doesn't mean anything other than being able to be attracted to both men and women. I don't know how old you are, but it can be pretty tough to deal with when you first realize - there are so many myths out there, even among lesbian and gay people about us. But trust me, it gets better! I was 16 when I figured it out, and I'm 28 now. I've had satisfying relationships with both guys and girls, and my sexuality has never been an issue in them. Wishing you the best! |
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I think you need to listen to your body, it will tell you even if your brain struggles with it. I figured out I was Bi at a conference... this woman walked into the room and the universe stopped and I nearly had to change my pants! Thankfully she is also Bi as is one of her children. She was in a relationship and wasn't interested in me anyway but she was able to be an awesome support and friend. After that so many relationships with other females in my life made a lot more sense!
Hang in there. We are here to talk to as you need.
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