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Jul 13, 2011, 10:56 PM
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just have to ask this question...
because im so afraid of falling in love with someone and then having nasty sex with them. why do i feel like i have to hide it? there are two sides to my sexuality. the side that wants to just have raunchy fun and then the other side that wants to fall in love im pretty young, is it naive? i would be humiliated if someone i loved a LOT had dirty raunchy sex with me. WHY? i know it doesn't make sense , but thinking about it unnerves me. i've never got to have sex with someone i really loved sadly i can only imagine and when i think about it i shudder. i dont know what to do. why am i like this?
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Jul 14, 2011, 12:10 AM
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ok... in my opinion honey....
you wish to fall in love.. but your scared to let others see the 'darker' side to you ?.. there is nothing wrong with as you say Nasty sex.. i am assuming you mean like BDSM ... there is always the darker half as i often refer to it as.. you wish for Raunchy and nasty sex but you also don't want to be considered a freak... "i would be humiliated if someone i loved a LOT had dirty raunchy sex with me." All this says to me is that cause you think about it alot... you wanna have someone who understands sexually you want to be slightly humilated as you find that a bit of a kink... ( please correct me if i'm wrogn about any of this) unfortunately eveyrone has this dark side to them.. it's if you play it out or not that is the major question honey |
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Jul 14, 2011, 07:21 PM
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I have lots of raunchy fun with my guy, and we're very much in love with each other. Part of sharing each other and being intimate is getting to know each others' sexuality and then fulfilling each others' sexual needs. Raunchy fun could be a big part of that for you. What I'm getting at is you can define how you express your love with your partner any way you want. If you both love raunchy fun, and it brings you closer together as a couple, then that can be a way that you express your love for each other. That's what intimacy is all about, in the end. |
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Jul 14, 2011, 08:31 PM
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What do you mean when you say "nasty" and "raunchy" sex? A lot of people are into more than you think. Me and my bf are both into BDSM and we have a very happy and full sex life, and a wonderful emotional relationship as well. You should be able to be comfortable to discuss your sexuality with a partner and you shouldn't feel ashamed of your sexuality.
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Jul 14, 2011, 10:34 PM
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Jul 14, 2011, 10:37 PM
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Jul 15, 2011, 02:14 PM
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One's actual experiences are rarely like what one imagines. Think of another time when you imagined something and then it came out wholly different from what you imagined. You don't have to make decisions about things until they are your decisions to make! You don't have to decide whether you like or dislike broccoli
 until it is in front of you and you are trying it!
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