[newtus]

dont know if this is the wrong forum

but

im not gay bi or transgender but i am female and have envy of the other gender. of the genitals.
seriously.
i thought about buying a packer.
why am i like this?

[anon61514]

I'd also like to hear opinions - I've wanted to experience life as a woman pretty strongly - more socially than sexually though, I guess.

(Sorry to not add anything to your question, newtus).

[IowaFarmGal]

Anybody got womb envy? I actually resent being female. It's been a raw deal for me.

[newtus]

i LOVE being female i just would also like a ____ you know

[Bipolar1Disorder]

Originally Posted by newtus

i LOVE being female i just would also like a ____ you know

Well lets see now, it always gets in the way, it erects when you don't want it to and never when you do. Nuts get squished often and when you get past 50 you are prone to getting Peyronie's Disease. If it's not big enough you don't get enough attention and can develop a complex over it. If it's to big you get to much attention and it becomes an obsession. If you shake it more than 5 times after urination then your playing with it.

The only good thing I have gotten from having one is knowing I can increase it's size just by pulling on it.....O ya, and my son too :-)

[elliemay]

What if it is the power differential between the sexes you seek to normalize?

That would be pretty normal I think.

At some time or another I suspect most women would prefer to be male. They are bigger, stronger, faster - less physically vulnerable. There is a status thing as well.

On the other hand, a friend of mine - a big burly manly man - when asked what he did for living replied "I pick things up and I put things down".

He also has a fabulous sense of humor.

I would rather be a female, but that's mostly because I'm so shy and unassertive - qualities that are so undesirable in men.

I think it's important that we don't talk down our sex's attributes in order to appease jealousy of others in this thread.

[Flooper]

I think each sex has its pros and it's cons. Personally I'd rather have woman genitals because it'd be cool. Also you don't have to worry about the size and h

[newtus]

yea vulnerability sucks as a female.

i just want to pee anywhere anytime.

Bipolar1D said it well

[Perna]

I think we have "parts" of both genders in us anyway; we have male hormones and they, female. I think our female imaginations are better, more detailed, and imagining what it would feel like or look like, I get that in a woman.

[Trippin2.0]

As a little girl I envied my best friend who could just wip it out and go whenever wherever. Me? I had to hold it till the last moment and run for my life! Nowadays, I just have 'walking topless' envy... Think its pretty normal.

[newtus]

walking topless as a female is something i currently enjoy. i used to be bored of the top half but its so squishy and comfy.

ladies need to let their sisters breathe anyway

[Trippin2.0]

I doubt my neighbourhood would be ok with me doing that during summer

[LiteraryLark]

i wish I was a man because I'm attracted to gay men and straight women. -_-

Plus, I've always wanted to know what a bj felt like as a man, I fantasize about that alot.

[lonegael]

I have always had a rather adrogenous side of me; masculine handwriting, some of my intrests were and are more masculine, more agression than one tends to see in a female, etc. Most of my problems, though with being female are social. I dislike the physical vulnerability but even more the "victim status". I and so many others were raised that we were born to be prey and therefore had to be protected. I resent knowing i have rights because I am "allowed" to have rights, that they can disappear tomorrow if I am not very vigilant. I resent that even today a lot of men think a big benefit to being female is that we "get" to be decorative. I hate the idea that I am supposed to somehow be weak and soft and if I am not by nature, I have to fake it. I very very dislike the social game playing that goes on in female cirlcels, even though I am aware that a certain amount also goes on in male hierarchies also. There is this way the women I have known have had of getting the claws in...

Please be aware that these are my own little demons from my own past, and I have met and worked with wonderful women and had trouble with terrible men. I even dream dreams where I am a man in my dreams, but they have seldom if ever been sexually tinged. I have mostly only been aware of it by looking down and seeing the hands in the dream And I am pretty brutally straight It's just that I can understand those who feel that they are born in the wrong body pretty well. When i was four, I could never figure out why I kept losing all the peeing contests at preschool
Huggs all!

[Koko2]

I'm envious of women because they don't have to do the asking to get dates. I hate, hate, hate doing the asking because it's too much like a job interview with the rejection. In fact, I've been rejected almost every time I've asked a girl out. My few past girlfriends initiated the relationship.

[newtus]

@Koko2

i heard this from a wise person many times:

dont go for the person you like, go for the person that likes you

[newtus]

Originally Posted by lonegael

I hate the idea that I am supposed to somehow be weak and soft and if I am not by nature, I have to fake it.

i HATE THIS

[newtus]

http://www.go-girl.com

[Koko2]

Originally Posted by newtus

@Koko2

i heard this from a wise person many times:

dont go for the person you like, go for the person that likes you

I have to reluctantly agree since it seems to be the case for me. My last rejection was from a girl that seemed to have a rare mutual attraction, she was consistently qualifying herself to me and smiling, but she called me the night before our first date to cancel it. That rejection sucked the soul out of me for many years. I haven't asked anyone out since. I've always been rejected in the past, but that one really cut deep.

[newtus]

ugh Fs forreal
i dont have gender issues.
but its all cool
moving my thread around
i see you touching mah legs.
dont touch my legs.

[Harley47]

Bipolar1Disorder wins. Flawless Victory. Fatality. - Mortal Kombat Announcer/Shao Kahn

It's not particularly amazing, promise. I'm not a woman, so I don't know if the equivalent action hurts as much, but getting hit in the..."family jewels?" Oh my sweet God the pain. Couple that with the dozens of times you get to display yourself as a kid when called up to the board (which, by the way, your teacher? She knows. Psychic abilities, I swear), the fact it essentially has a "Use by" date of 50-60, nothing you can EVER do will make parts of your anatomy look acceptable in the mirror (I'd elaborate if I could word it without being too frank...)...prostate exams...have you ever seen a urinal? Nothing more awkward than standing there exposed by another exposed dude bumping your shoulder while you both try to pee. Redefines stage fright...I don't think I've used one in a decade. Granted, a decade puts me at 9 last time I used one...but I think that's pretty accurate of a guess. :/

You know the weird thing about getting hit "there"? It only hurts there for a few seconds. The bulk of the pain is actually up, like in your stomach...never understood that.

I wouldn't trade it...I don't think I could mentally handle a monthly cycle (blood outside of movies and video games makes me cringe...and from there? I don't think I'd be quite the same after the first time... ), and no amount of epidural could make childbirth an okay prospect for me...but it's not all flowers and sunshine on our side of the fence, just like yours isn't.

I hope my response didn't seem flippant of the topic at hand. I just had a lot of fun browsing through this is all. I do completely understand the curiosity. Speaking honestly, I envy the ability for the fabled "multiple orgasms," among a few other curiosities, but I wouldn't swap teams.