[LiteraryLark]

What do you do when you or your partner is on their period?

I'd really like to be fingered but that would be difficult if not messy to do while on my period. Should I wear a tampon until I'm ready? Oh yeah, btw, I found someone who's into Nazis and strapons! hahaha! I've known him for over a month and I let him go as far as fingering. We talked about ****, but I'd like to get used to being touched first because I'm super sensitive, but then again I'm so excited thinking tomorrow may be my first time and I really want this. I'm really excited!

Wish me luck!

[Harley47]

Glad you found someone you click with Doc. I hope you two have a wonderful relationship, and that when/if something happens with him, it's all you wanted it to be.

Anyway, were it me, you'd probably want to tell him up front. Some guys will be okay with it with proper accommodation whereas some will not want to. I've swapped stories (read: had stories told to me) from both camps. Ultimately, it depends on the guy...and I would think, if we're being perfectly honest, your...ah, flow, I suppose. Do forgive the wording.

I think the tampon would probably be a good idea, but that's me speaking as a guy with as little knowledge as one could have, so...grain of salt? lol I'd think it be best to do whatever is most convenient...easy enough to slip out to the bathroom for a quick "Let me freshen up" sort of thing, I would think.

Anyway, best of luck. I hope you two have a wonderful relationship and many happy times together. lol Do forgive my ignorance in some of the finer points of things and my wording if it was blunt. I just figured I could offer some advice for his perspective, is all.

Best of luck, and congrats.

Harley

[sivyaleah]

Originally Posted by DrSkipper

What do you do when you or your partner is on their period?

I'd really like to be fingered but that would be difficult if not messy to do while on my period. Should I wear a tampon until I'm ready? Oh yeah, btw, I found someone who's into Nazis and strapons! hahaha! I've known him for over a month and I let him go as far as fingering. We talked about ****, but I'd like to get used to being touched first because I'm super sensitive, but then again I'm so excited thinking tomorrow may be my first time and I really want this. I'm really excited!

Wish me luck!

I agree with Harley. Some guys don't seem to mind, others have hangups and can't get past it. Wearing a tampon will certainly help if you're only looking for manual sex at that time of the month, and I can't see why a guy would object to that at all. If you want to go further than just clitoral stimulation, keep it in until the last moment.

As for intercourse - I've found once you get beyond the first day or so and the flow lets up, it isn't quite as messy as one would think, at least for me (I never feel particularly good the first day or so anyway so it's the last thing on my mind). Laying down a towel just in case is advised of course.

I think you'll work it out as time goes by. I usually waited until I knew the guy fairly well before I sprung that on him, although I have had a couple of them broach it themselves before that. Again, no set rule on it - depends on the people involved.

Good luck! Enjoy!

[JLarissaDragon]

My periods are pretty irregular to begin with. Usually I avoid intercourse on the first day or two when the flow is heaviest. After that we go for it if we are so inclined. Personally I do not see a problem with it as long as he is OK. If he is uptight about the bit of blood, he can always wear a condom. He should anyway unless you are on birth control or not concerned about getting pregnant.

If you are only going for manual stimulation, wearing a tampon is a good idea. There are other ways to bring him off, if needed too. ie. oral, etc
More important is to be in a loving relationship, preferably your spouse, Then what ever the two of you agree on is ok

[Big Mama]

Different strokes for different folks. Some guys do not mind. Others do. It is all prefrence. Just let him know before hand. The others are right day one and two could be messy but after that lots less mess. there may be mess involved but not like the other days. This is also time when ovulation is near in some gals. So it is a great time to play around. But it's also a great time to get pregnent. Have fun and be careful. I'm so glad you found a nazis man who likes what you like. There is someone out there for everyone.

I'm glad you overcame your lonelinss and finally found a guy who is willing to dress as a Nazi and finger you while you are on your period.

It's a sweet story.

[LiteraryLark]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA xD

That's so funny, idk why but that cheered me up.

ROFLMAO I love it. So simplified and random.

Hi Dr. Skipper - sexual stimulation during your period can be wonderful, the area is usually more sensitive during this time so the feelings of pleasure seem 'heightened.' If you're on your 2nd/3rd or even 4th day ive found that during intercourse the period seems to 'stop' temporarily - either that or its not noticable due to increased lubrication. This may not be the case for everyone but it may be worth giving it a try nonetheless. Definately try and discuss this topic as openly as you can - some men don't see the issue, others would prefer to wait until the cycle is over. All the best.

[Big Mama]

Same here things do seem to stop temporarily. After a short while it's all back to normal.

[lynn P.]

If this is the 1st encounter with this man, I don't think you should. You have to know someone very well before asking if they're comfortable with this. If he objects totally it could be a real deal breaker IMO.