[Stellato]

So I've always had a fetish for women's lingerie. Just looking at it, never wearing it before. But these past couple weeks I've bought some corsets, stockings and high heels and I absolutely LOVE wearing them. The girl I'm dating, who I'm in an open relationship with, is into guys cross dressing and she suggested I buy them and try it. I feel so comfortable wearing them and it turns me on so much that it's a normal thing now. (Although I have no desire to act girly or wear make up or go more extreme with it like that. Just love the clothes!)

It got me wondering, is it common for a woman to like men that cross dress or no? For the ladies here, do you like it when a man cross dresses or no?

Vote! Thoughts, comments? Post 'em! I'd like to hear what people think.

[Puffyprue]

i dont know if its common or not for a women to like men that cross dress but for me i dont want my man look prettier than me

I don't know if its common or not, I personally wouldn't enjoy being with a man who cross dressed, it wouldn't tickle my fancy that's for sure. But everyone enjoys there own thing and if that's what you like then have fun with it

[LiteraryLark]

I'd love to see my coworker dressed in women's lingerie and subdue him. I might put lipstick on him, but I need a masculine man to dominate. It's a hot fantasy to have.

[Ladyzero]

No, I couldn't tolerate a cross dresser. I don't get it, the whole dress up thing. Do you or CDers in general want to be women ? Do you have sex wearing women's lingerie ? does that make the female partner have lesbian tendancies ? Each to their own and as you are harming no one in your activity, then it's no one else's business, but yours. But STAY OUT my undies drawer !

[Stellato]

Originally Posted by Ladyzero

No, I couldn't tolerate a cross dresser. I don't get it, the whole dress up thing. Do you or CDers in general want to be women ? Do you have sex wearing women's lingerie ? does that make the female partner have lesbian tendancies ? Each to their own and as you are harming no one in your activity, then it's no one else's business, but yours. But STAY OUT my undies drawer !

I can't speak for other cross dressers, but I have no desire to be a woman. I'm comfortable with my sexually. And yes we do have sex while I am wearing my lingerie. She especially likes the feel of satin on my hard chest and the way the heels pump my behind up a little bit. Same goes for me, I like the feeling of the material used in them. She showed a couple pics of me dressed in my lingerie to her friends and they say it drives them wild with how sexy I look.

What I'm finding kind of strange is that some women take offense to men doing this and I don't understand. I was reading on some other forums and some men say when they revealed it to their wives, their wife would leave them or their marriage was never the same. What kind of s*** is that?

[Maven]

Ok, I chose, "No," but there's much more to my answer than that. For a short while, I had fantasies of being with a transvestite. Kind of an exploration of my sexuality, I guess you'd say. It's not the sexiest thing in the world to me, but I kind of got into it. I can deal with the clothes and makeup, but I don't think I'd get turned on by a guy acting girly. I like my man to look and sound like a man, but I can, to a limited degree, forgo some of the looks.

I'll agree with puffyprue in that I don't want the guy to look prettier than me, either, LOL! (And transvestites are often really good with the makeup and fashion, too, darn it! I do love the glam, I might add!)

If I were dating a guy who revealed to me that he liked to dress in women's clothes, I don't think it would be a dealbreaker. I might need to try it out for a while and see.

[Big Mama]

If you love someone the clothes they ware is not a reason to leave. I'd be flored if my H was wearing ladies undies when I came home but I'm pretty sure it would not make me leave him. It' s clothes. I wore men's undies when I was pregnant. I wear guys shirts from time to time. They are cheaper then womans. So it would not cause me to leave him unless it were along with ohter serious deep seated issues we could not resolve.

But do guys in girls clothes do something for me. No it doesn't. But to each there own. If we all liked the same thing the would would be a boring place now wouldn't it. Flavor is the spice of life, so spice it up and go for it as long as it works for yall, great.

Would definitely be a turn-off for me. Just too odd for me I guess.

[bighands]

Hmmm. Related question.

What do you ladies generally think sexually of TS men who transition to women but keep their male genitalia?

Sorry for the vulgarity but "chicks with dicks" or "sluts with nuts" seems to be a pretty common internet porn genre. Although these usually seem to be targeted to a male bi-curious type fantasy, I have seen much less common ones that were with a pretty MTF TS and a woman. Especially interested in hearing the opinions of bisexual women.

[Big Mama]

Absolutely not what I like. Does zero for me. If my H turned out to be female except in anatomy I just don't think I could stay. I love him and we are not getting along right now and it is easy to say "sluts w/ nuts" no way. If I had the love for him that 18 years of grief had not ruined then maybe I would still love him after I found that out something like that. If he were still the same person. I can't really answer that. I don't know how I would handle that.

There are wonderful people who have those preferences. The world has all types. It's just not a preference of mine.

I'm a lesbian, so for me if I was with what I thought to be a women and they revel male genitalia I would have a big issue. It wouldn't change my view of the person or make me like them any less but I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with that person.

[bighands]

Originally Posted by imabananin

I'm a lesbian, so for me if I was with what I thought to be a women and they revel male genitalia I would have a big issue. It wouldn't change my view of the person or make me like them any less but I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with that person.

Even if they identified themselves in every other way to truly believe themselves to be a woman? I'm certainly not criticizing and I know this is incredibly complex. Would you really be no longer be able to stay with her just because she happened to have a penis?

[Raindropvampire]

Actually have dated someone that was MTF but had no plans to have full reassignment surgery. As long as the penis was still there what did I care? The only thing that broke us up was I didn't want kids at all.

My husband now is very vain and wears eyeliner and nail polish. Anything to accentuate his good looks. I think it's sexy. If he ever gets into cross dressing fine by me too

[Maven]

I gotta be honest. I understand gender can be very confusing for some people, but while I think you should be able to do to your body what you want, I couldn't be with someone who is half one way and half another. I like men. I know some men feel like they're women and some women feel like they're men, but to me, you don't change gender until you change everything.

[bighands]

Relationships and sexual turn-ons are certainly 2 very different things. I think it would be very hard, if not nearly impossible, to have a lasting relationship with a man who was a cross-dresser. Too many questions/issues to tackle. Wanna have kids? How persistent would the man want to be with this? If it's a full time thing, how do you explain that to kids, friends, family. That's a lot.

So, I'm not sure but I would venture to guess that the OP was referring to bedroom activity and or fantasy play. That's why I posted by related question. Just a question of sexual stimulation. Is making love to a cross dressing man or a MTF TS a nice sexual fantasy or just too oogy?

Think... you're far from home on the last day of a vacation at some beach paradise all by yourself. You just had a hot shower in your swank, plush hotel room. You're enjoying a glass of good wine, lying naked on a cool comfy bed while cooling down when in strolls Blake Lively (feel free to substitute your fav Hollywood hottie) also freshly showered and naked but with a huge hard penis and she tenderly explains how she's been watching you all week as she lies down on the bed next to you and puts a hand on your thigh. You're leaving the next day and no one will ever know what you do in that room to put an exclamation point on your vacation.

You tell me. Hot or not?

Originally Posted by bighands

Even if they identified themselves in every other way to truly believe themselves to be a woman? I'm certainly not criticizing and I know this is incredibly complex. Would you really be no longer be able to stay with her just because she happened to have a penis?

Yes, even if they 100% felt they were a women in every other way I would not be able to be in a sexual relationship with them. I would still be her friend and consider her to be a women but I would not be able to do a relationship when they claim to be one thing and revel another, it would be a total turn off for me. That's not to say everyone feels that way, and to each they're own , its just not for me.

[schizo21]

I think men and women should dress however they want. For me, clothes are just clothes. I'd make one ugly crossdresser. On a personal note, one of my best friends is a crossdresser, and looks great. I find myself calling him, 'she' when he wears women's clothes.

Originally Posted by bighands

Relationships and sexual turn-ons are certainly 2 very different things. I think it would be very hard, if not nearly impossible, to have a lasting relationship with a man who was a cross-dresser. Too many questions/issues to tackle. Wanna have kids? How persistent would the man want to be with this? If it's a full time thing, how do you explain that to kids, friends, family. That's a lot.

So, I'm not sure but I would venture to guess that the OP was referring to bedroom activity and or fantasy play. That's why I posted by related question. Just a question of sexual stimulation. Is making love to a cross dressing man or a MTF TS a nice sexual fantasy or just too oogy?

Think... you're far from home on the last day of a vacation at some beach paradise all by yourself. You just had a hot shower in your swank, plush hotel room. You're enjoying a glass of good wine, lying naked on a cool comfy bed while cooling down when in strolls Blake Lively (feel free to substitute your fav Hollywood hottie) also freshly showered and naked but with a huge hard penis and she tenderly explains how she's been watching you all week as she lies down on the bed next to you and puts a hand on your thigh. You're leaving the next day and no one will ever know what you do in that room to put an exclamation point on your vacation.

You tell me. Hot or not?

Definately a not.