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Old Nov 07, 2012, 08:22 PM
Nihil Nihil is offline
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I recently found out that some people are still willing to have sex without any motivation whatsoever. Does anyone else but me think this is kind of weird? Would you have sex with someone if you weren't motivated?
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Old Nov 07, 2012, 09:10 PM
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I guess it depends what you mean by motivated. As in, no libido or as in "no reason whatsoever". There's more than one reason to have sex. For example, habit, societal expectation/peer pressure, conception, for the sake of a partner (in a relationship, this can be a dealbreaker), bonding with a partner... Someone might not really have a libido but have a reason to have sex.
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Old Nov 07, 2012, 11:51 PM
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I do all the time. Me and my H have been married 18 years and if he waited for my motivation his thing would dry up like a rasin. So yes. No motivation but do the deed anyway. He has to have it and I get that so it's his. I have almost zero need. (meds killed the desire)
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Old Nov 07, 2012, 11:56 PM
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Does "getting to know you" count as motivation? If I were single I'd totally go for it.
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Old Nov 14, 2012, 10:44 PM
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I can have sex with a guy who is very much into me even if I am not reciprocating, because I enjoy being liked. I have changed over the years in that respect; when younger, I very much enjoyed being liked but not to the point of having sex; now, I can. Does it make sense? I am probably not alone in that - I am sure it is pretty normal to enjoy being liked and adored and wanted. I suspect that everyone is like that to some extent, unless there has been very severe SA.
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