what is this????? trigger!

So, I'm embarrassed to ask this question, but I'm going to ask it anyway. Very randomly I get this weird feeling.............down there. It's like I get tight, then tingly. It lasts maybe two or three seconds, max. I can be going about my day as normal and, suddenly, this happens. I'm not ever thinking about much of anything. What is this????
Oh, one other question............as you may be able to tell, I'm a virgin with very little knowledge about this kinda stuff. So...............when I look at something I like, I get this weird tickly feeling in my tummy. This feeling in my tummy makes me smile................does that mean I'm aroused??????

Yep, that definitely sounds like physical arousal. It doesn't necessarily mean your mentally aroused, sometimes it has more to do with the temperature (being cold, naked, or windy can do it) or that time of the month (periods can make you do that) or sometimes there's just no explanation and it does that all on its own.

Trust me, that happens to me all the time. It's the same muscle you use when you do Kegel exercise that's flexing.

Now I'm going to try to look it up because I'm sure there's a name for that!

Also, one other question........................when I rub my tummy, I get all happy.........the feeling I get makes me smile. I get happy then relaxed and want to sleep. Is this a form of masturbation??? Can this be a form of it? Is that what I'm doing????????

sorry for all the questions..................one more.
What about when I touch those things up there?????? above the tummy........I like touching them and get all happy doing that, too. what am I doing?

Uhhh, they're called breasts. And you're fondling them. They get hard when they're stimulated.

May I ask how old you are?

um.............I'm 29..........Like I said in the earlier post, I know very little about this stuff........

I read your profile and your previous posts, you should know where on your body you are touching yourself.

I, um.............I do........I'm just scared to say it

You don't have to be scared honey! We all are here to help you with your questions, anything you want to say is fine! But of course if it is an awkward subject for you we understand. M. x

Yeah, I didn't mean to come off so harsh. If that's a scary topic for you, I understand.

..................but I am scared.............scared to think about it...............scared to talk about it..............scared cuz I'm doing bad things...............doing bad things I don't wanna be doing.....................what's wrong with me??????????

Okay sweetie. Calm down as best you can okay? What are you afraid of? You can talk on here --that's what we're here for! There is nothing wrong with you wanting to ask these questions, and it's okay that your scared and not comfortable to do so. Just say as much as you want and I'll try to help you xx

There's nothing to be afraid of at all. You're an adult woman. Nothing you're doing, at least in regards to touching yourself, is bad. Not at all. I'd submit to you that everyone on the face of this planet has at least once, whether they admit it or not. Heck, babies will touch themselves while still in the womb. Provided that is what you're talking about being "bad," please don't beat yourself up about it. You're perfectly normal.

scared of lotsa things...............talking about this is scary...........having all these questions is scary.............thoughts and feelings are scary.............not suppose to talk about this stuff............not suppose to think about it..............not suppose to want to know it.................................................

We can't help you when you are this distressed. Drink a cup of tea, take a bubble bath, put on a nice movie, try to relax. Sign off and take a breather, come back when you are more calm.

I agree with Skipper, take a break from PC and calm yourself down. Maybe think about what help you wanted in starting this thread and what questions you want answering, then when your ready we'll happily help. X

Yep. We all have those parts and have different ways of feeling when we talk about them. I used to be shy but I've came around since being here at PC. (4 months I think) It's like sexuallity is part of everyday life and I guess it is. So ask away. We all have different experiences and different concerns. We are all here to help each other.

I'm still scared...........I'll always be scared of this kinda stuff..................I don't know what to do...........

Sexuality scares me to. It's weird to talk about all these things. It is weird for others to know what you do in the privacy of your own home. I remember when I was pregnant I was so embarrassed, people knew what I had been doing. And people at church, oh my goodness, SO embarrassing. I felt like I had a sign that said "guilty" on my forehead, guilty of having sex. But the truth is sexuality does exist. We all got here because some one had sex. I know yuck huh. I am usually conservative. I am the wife of a deacon at church. But guess what ..... I had sex and it was not all that bad, I might have even liked parts of it. So it really is ok.

I'm sloooooowly learning to accept this as a part of life. The idea of pregnancy scares me to death...........well, not really the pregnancy, but the act that's required to become pregnant. I'm disgusted by the idea that people I know have done this act. I know my view is skewed but that's the way it is.......I am so ashamed of myself and the way I think and feel sometimes. It's like you said, I have this image of being guilty of thinking and feeling a certain way. And, not to mention even talking about this kind of thing!
I, too, am involved in my church, and it makes what I'm going through extra hard. I heard all my life to not let myself go "that" route. Not to entertain thoughts of a certain nature, if you know what I mean. So, it makes this phase I'm going through super difficult..............Thanks for posting......It's nice to know I'm not alone

For valentines day at church a couple w/ 4 kids led our lesson and meal to follow. The topic was how the church talks about sex. Like it is a sin, like it is dirty, or so horrible it's not something that should even be mentioned. We talked about how that changes our since of reality. This couple along w/ the preacher talked about how sex is sacred. It is the joining of two after marriage. It is a gift from God to create new life. It is a gift of connecting two people who love each other and will add to togetherness. It's not such a horrible thing.

Theoretically, I know this but, really??????????? It just seems so wrong. I know society has messed around with this a lot and skewed our perceptions as a whole on what it exactly is and what it means. But, really?????????? Is it ok??? Is what I'm doing ok? Is what I'm thinking and feeling ok????

Absolutely, yes. Humanity (or any other sexually reproducing species, for that matter) would've died out a LONG time ago if it were not. Sexuality is a perfectly normal part of being alive, IMO. That doesn't mean it can't be scary...I'm very scared/nervous at the prospect of my first time. Lots of things to take into account, among other "Harley Unique" fears. But it's normal...both to be curious about it and to be, at the same time, a little afraid.