LEGAL brothel questions

I'd love to find a woman who fit your description. They seem to be few and far between, thus why I'm talking about visiting women who have sex as their job title. In fact, I overheard a couple of co-workers mentioning their first time and took all of my strength not to just up and leave in the middle of my shift. It's a pleasure that I feel I deserve and that is never meant for me and me alone. It's like the world throwing a middle finger at me, saying "You'll never get any."

here in ny we dont have legal brothels we have prostitution and its illegal. thats not saying it doesnt happen. walk around down town or at port authority and its relatively easy to see which of the ladies and gents are doing business. how much it costs that all depends upon what services /positions/number of participants....

my suggestion dont worry about being an adult virgin. take your time, develop friendships and intimate relationships will naturally follow.

I tried it with someone whom I met on a casual sex site. The ripoff was she quoted me a price but then told me there was a booking fee followed by the cost of services. Now as a result I have a freeze on my card & I can't pay. Lord what do I have to do for sex

I've given up. I've given the whole f-----g exercise up. I know I'm not getting any (no woman wants free sex with a loser virgin & all pay sex ops are scams) so I'm just going to bide my time til my 35th birthday, then everything I know will end. What did I do to not deserve sex?

Do you have any interaction at all with reasonably attractive women, at work or otherwise? I'm wondering if this circumstance is due mainly to lack of any opportunities. We all drive around in our cars between points A and B and miss out on random meetups like they used to have on a daily basis or still do have in a large city or college town. It's been awhile since I got any, and I think a lot of it is due being a homebody. About my only opportunity is soliciting a Seventh Day Adventist that comes knocking on my door every once in awhile.

Yes I do but they're all in relationships and/or have kids. Just like college, EVERY SINGLE attractive girl had a boyfriend. I've just accepted the fact that I will never sex in my life. I loathe it and that's why I don't want to live as a 35-year old virgin, but I've accepted it.

When I was in Toronto on Yunge St. A hooker walked up to me soliciting her services. I was not interested but out of curiosity I asked how much. She said $200 for a BJ. I said lady for $200 your gonna have to do more then a BJ I also want you to feed me, wash my clothes and clean my house, wash my car and do my yard. She got mad and walked away lol. That was 15 years ago too.

For that amount it would be any sexual favor at any time and fix me a gourmet dinner

Sadly I wish I had $10 million so money would be no object to sexual fulfillment. I mean when you're the only person my age who's never had any you will do ANYTHING! I need it, I will truly kill myself the day after my 35th birthday if it doesn't happen. How do I tell friends that's the ONLY thing I want in life (and my birthday isn't for another 5 months)?

I don't suggest doing this as a general rule, but many women will have more than one partner simultaneously, that is, many partnered women will have casual sex with you if you don't come across as wanting a serious relationship because they're bored with their significant other or their significant other has been cheating. Could you be someone's partner "on the side"?

No, I don't want to take the chance that the partner finds out. If that were to happen, well, let's just say I'd probably be eating my favorite meals out of a straw for a period of time (I'm not a fighter at all).

Good God, I'm trying Eros, and they're all looking for "upscale" and "elite" gentleman. What are they going to do, run a credit check on me? A few want references? Again, HOW THE MOTHER--- AM I SUPPOSED TO GET EXPERIENCED!??!?!?!?!?!?!!?!??!!!?!??!!??!?!?!?! EVEN THESE DAMN ESCORTS WANT GUYS WHO'VE DONE IT!!!!! I'M DONE!!!! I'M DONE!!!! FORGET IT, I'M DONE, NOBODY WANTS A F----- VIRGIN!!!!

There has to be local singles sites and so on in your area, craigslist or something, why not do it the old fashion way, meet a decent chic, hang out a couple nights, have a few drinks, batta bing batta bang, you got er rollin up the sheets with here toes if you work it just right.

Well, I don't know what to tell you, except that you're going to have to lower your standards in some way. Have you thought of expanding your casual sex search to include women you don't find as attractive? If you've always gone after conventionally cute or pretty girls, perhaps you should try something different.

Or you can save up several hundred dollars and take a trip to Nevada.

$200 is not a lot of money for intercourse, by the way. The woman is putting a lot into that interaction - more than you might be able to imagine. You can find people who charge less, but there is usually a reason for that.

If I were in your shoes & was as desperate as you are, first of all, I'd cool off & take my time - you can't play a fiddle all frumped up. Then I'd find some local social site - maybe CL (I don't know the names of any others) and just put out a casual offer/suggestion to take someone out for dinner - I'd like some company - in a public place - safe & secure - THAT'S ALL and MEAN IT. It's likely I'd meet someone genuinely lonely. And I'd just be happy to meet someone over a nice dinner and conversation. I'd be genuine.

I'd do that a few times, be happy for the company, and chill.

I might not score, but at least I'd have some fun & raise my chances.

Don't know if "sexual surrogates" are legal/avalable here in the States.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...es-who-and-why

If you find out, let us know!! Kinda curious myself.

IPSA

No I haven't been able to find a sexual surrogacy near me, thanks for the suggestion.

And I am out of patience, NO WOMAN WANTS A 31-YEAR OLD VIRGIN! NONE! PERIOD!

I am the only person in my friendship group that has not had sex and I just can't tell anyone. I NEED SEX.

Honestly, as a woman, you don't have to tell your partner. They are probably more nervous/thinking about their own feelings anyways. If you are attentive to her,the rest will follow. It doesn't hurt to ask what she likes.

I hope so for my sake. I surely won't tell her but considering I haven't had a woman get naked for me in person so I will probably have the reaction of a 12 year old boy, which might be a giveaway.

Um - make that 18 year old guy, that's when men are in their prime, and I'll take that over somebody who's been doing it the same darn way, making the same old pattern moves for the past nn years anytime!

the secret is all guys have the reaction of a 12 year old really, a girl is going to care more about someone being thoughtful to her needs than a butched-up narcissist. Unless she is a narcissist/brat also

Well I would never know how to do that unless I have experience. Which I don't have. Which I will never get. Not even from someone whose job it is to have sex. Ever. In my life.

Hey mate. I've been reading the posts and i sympathize. Boy do i sympathize. I've been casually browsing brothels around the world thinking that maybe i'll tie a visit in with a holiday. Thailand is no longer as cheap ( and it is illegal) as it used to be but i think probably still cheaper than USA or Europe. In Germany and Holland it is legal. I was looking at a club in Germany called ARTEMIS. It has saunas, pools, massage,cinema,free food and drink and of course sex. It costs 80 euros entrance and then sex ( whatever you want and agree on) is 60 euros for half an hour. For a virgin i would say that you would want at least an hour with a girl ( the first time has got to be nice , not rushed and feel good). so that would be 200 euros, which is er prob £180 or $270. Which is a lot of money but you can stay there all day, get a free breakfast and buffet dinner in the evening and use all the facilities so hmm maybe not so bad. I came (sic) across a place in Amsterdam where it is free. The downside is that they use it as a kind of reality show and put it online. Some people could live with that some couldn't but if you could find the air fare to Amsterdam then maybe thats a possibility and have a holiday at the same time. Anyway i know it sucks big time and really society should recognize that sex is a basic biological need for most people and make it easier for people who don't get laid ( too shy, ugly, disabled whatever) to get their share too , so to speak. It's almost a cruel and unusual punishment metered out to people who deserve better. Yet another way society is way outta whack with the needs of the people. Best of luck mate. I think the idea of just being honest ( 30 yo virgin looking for caring and sensitive older woman to be intimate with and make him a man) and seeing if a woman is willing to have sex with you isn't a bad idea. America is a big country and if you spread yourself wide enough ( not literally) i'm sure somebody would respond. ok here are a few links.
Berlin Bordello Experience | Capital Punter Blog
Angus Magee Blog
FKK Club Artemis Berlin
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=23887
Ps Oops that free one is in Prague not Amsterdam

Well now I have suffered the ultimate degredation: I have been rejected by an ESCORT, someone who's PAID to have sex, simply because I'm a virgin

buck up man, I personally know someone (male) who was a virgin at 35, and a girl we met on a jobsite actually jumped at the chance to take his cherry. so while she might not be the most respectable girl, she was positively giddy at the chance to have a mans cherry.

keep looking, they are out there!