I want to do a photoshoot, but I'm self-concious about my weight

I know it seems like I'm one of the more self-proud people regarding my ability to freely speak my mind about fetishes and sex, but in reality I'm very self-conscious.

I've been wanting to do a lingerie photo shoot for about three years, but now since the hospitalization I've gained 50 pounds and I do not look as good as I did my senior year of high school. My stomach sticks out, I have a really ugly muffin top, my cheeks are fuller and I have neck fat and my thighs are big. I don't think I have the body for a lingerie shoot anymore. I think my best bet would be to get a black corset, but the point of a lingerie photo shoot is that I would feel good with how I look, but now I think I look fat and ugly. I do not know what to do. I wish I was thin again.

Aw Doc don't feel that way. I'm sure you look just fine. Keep in mind, a lot of what we're "supposed" to look like is enforced by what's statistically 1% of the population (and honestly, said 1% sort of looks unhealthy in how skinny they can be). Forget that. Do what you want to do, and let stupid standards be damned.

Yes, i think if you're going to do a lingerie photoshoot, you probably need to look your best. If you were just going to do a Nazi fetish shoot then that would be ok.

Many larger women are very beautiful and have done similar shoots with wonderful photos. Think of the celebrities who have done this. Queen Latiffa, Jennifer Hudson, I think even the woman who is in Mike and Molly, can't remember her name.

Yeah I don't like the woman from mike and molly, but I forget her name too, I think it's melinda mccarthy or something.

But yes, you're right, overweight women can be very attractive, especially if it means bigger boobs. Sorry to be shallow, but it is true.