You are hurting me

Is there a training excercise that my partner can undertake to learn to handle my testicles with the proper amount of force?

I told her that they are about as sensitive as eyeballs, which is sort of true, and since we both have eyes, I thought she would get it. She is still a little careless though.

I enjoy the overall process of having my testicles manipulated because it allows me to put my trust in my partner and surrender to her, which is what I am into.

It also feels good. Except when it doesn't.

The thing is, everyone is different. There are guys that like to get stomped on by a high heel and others that are quite sensitive.

I think the best advice, and you hear it here often, is to communicate. I myself have used the, "Whoa! Ow! Okay, that hurts!" method effectively.

Well dude you know there are no formal testicle handling training courses!

You've got to teach her YOURSELF about how gently to treat them etc, with communication and commentary.

But yeah, I'm a guy, I don't want to talk any more about your testicles

you could show her with your own hand...cup them like you want her to and on her wrist or hand squeeze the amount that would be too hard so she can feel it.

I don't think eyeballs is a good comparison cuz a person doesnt usually touch their eyeballs. I would say more like boobs during extreme pms - that to me says handle with care. Like the skin is okay, but what's below the surface can be tender.

These are some good suggestions. I never knew that about pms. I will ask her if she gets extreme pms and make the comparison.

there are sex ed classes that can teach about things like this. to find them contact your therapist or your medical doctor. adult sex ed classes actually use manakins that have computers in their anatomical parts that allows a person to find that happy medium with out harming their partners.

i know someone who explained to their sexual partner (male-female relationship) about their testicle sensitivity by first performing oral sex on the lady, after a woman orgasms this way their clitoris is just as sensitive as a mans testicles. so after the orgasm the guy barely touched her clitoris then said...sensitive huh, you ok? she replied yes just give me a moment and he smiled and said I feel the same way when someone holds my balls too tight.

after that she would do what he did. touch and then check in to make sure he was ok before applying more pressure.

many times partners model what they want to happen to them rather than checking in with their partners because thats what sex books like the joy of sex tells people to do....if you want something to happen to you, do it to your partner and he/she will reciprocate.

well like my own wife and I discovered thats all and good for some but for others doing to the other is sometimes too much especially if the one partner is pushing/squeezing too hard on their partner as a way to say I need more pressure/squeezing down below.

it may sometimes take creative ways to open the partners eyes to what one really wants especially if they are trying to follow the joy of sex or porn or what ever.

my wife and I have learned to take time outside of the intimate moment to talk about things that way it isnt just a show me what you want kind of thing.
its a check in with each other about the last encounter to adjust/make changes for the next time situation.