What to Do, What to Do,...

Wow, a lot of interesting feedback on this one, thanks guys. In a nut shell, she is a professional woman who is also a very type "A" personality, OC about house cleaning, everything has its place etc, etc, she did experience quite a serious case of post partum after having our son and I'm sure quite a bit of it is due to hormonal levels and a touch of depression, I have talked to her about this and given her advice. I've seriously tried getting her to come with me to do fun things but its like she takes an active approach to not liking anything that I enjoy, she really has no hobbies and has sort of made our son her everything, always taking him to do things, mostly without me. Not saying that is wrong because that's how I feel to a degree, I just feel our relationship is important to. She's never been the type of woman who likes to cuddle or even likes to get flowers if that's not weird enough by itself, I help around the house and me and my son have a great relationship, I almost feel like she has more manly qualities then womanly. We have gone to a couple of counseling sessions to no avail. Just not sure what to do at this point, my house is my castle but I don't feel much like a king, so tired of being lonely and miss the affection of a warm and loving woman.