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Old Dec 07, 2013, 07:56 AM
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Please list some things here that turn you on, whether in general or in reference to your partner.

I get turned on when my partner takes me out to a museum or to an art gallery and shows me cool things.
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 08:02 AM
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I get turned on when my husband does a load of laundry, cooks dinner and does the dishes all in the same day.
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 11:27 AM
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 12:57 PM
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There's a lot that turns me on. I think I am foreverly turned on.
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 03:33 PM
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I get turned on when my husband does a load of laundry, cooks dinner and does the dishes all in the same day.
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 03:38 PM
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I get turned on when my boyfriend uses his deep sexy phone voice. Yum
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 04:12 PM
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Sense of humour - without the a-hole edge, people who can be funny without the nastiness behind it are sexy to me. Especially as they appear to be in short supply
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Old Dec 07, 2013, 10:15 PM
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 02:32 AM
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When my boyfriend kisses me or plays with my hair. Also when he texts me and tells me all the things he wants to do to me when we get home.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 04:10 PM
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I get turned on when my boyfriend uses his deep sexy phone voice. Yum
Now I have Berry White's voice stuck in my head.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 04:38 PM
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Feet. NOT hairy hobbit feet. I don't know why, I suppose I'm very strange.

Spanking, tickling, biting, nibbling. Whispers in the ear. Restraints and blindfolds.

Slightly plump ladies, broad shouldered men.

When my fiance goes on about how much he loves me during cuddles. Doesn't happen all too much, he's pretty reserved, so when it does happen it feels like sexy Christmas.
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Old Dec 11, 2013, 08:27 PM
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What turns me on, eyes..... deep warm sensual eyes. They are the window to the soul ya know.

A since of humor, some one who listens whole heartedly, and confidence.

You could be the best looking dude ever but if you are a co cky *** whole then I want nothing to do with you. Looks mean little to me, but what is on the inside really counts.
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Old Dec 11, 2013, 10:01 PM
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I am all ears. Sounds are super important to me. If I am in love, then the sound of the speech (plus, of course, the meaning) of a man I love is what turns me on the most, and it can be on the phone (NOT phone sex but a normal conversation). Thinking of him, too. I can have a full body orgasm from thinking about the man.

The voice of Leonard Cohen is very sexy, to use a popular singer's example to explain myself.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 08:06 AM
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I get turned on when my partner holds my face in her hands and forces me to make eye contact with her.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 09:49 AM
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Nothing much of late most everything is a trigger. In the past it's been women that don't look stereotypically white American. Also, not being overly sexual or promiscuous. Whispering In my ear without making it tickle (very difficult, and if you can pull it off you are a goddesses). A good sense of humor, confidence... our couple's t (but my wife feels the same way about her, only mine has not lasted). Then there's the "other" stuff like knives and blood (still trying to figure this out... very weird to admit).

My only turn - on from a guy would be Morgan Freeman's voice...
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 11:50 PM
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I get very turned in when my boyfriend tells me he wants to see my face when he orgasms.

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Old Jan 02, 2014, 01:12 AM
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I'm turned on by touch. Just simple touch. Or possibly even thinking of being touched.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 04:46 AM
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Intelligence without pretention, a wicked sense of humor, certain types of eyeglasses, any gal that can talk to me at length about autos, video gaming, politics, history and science all in the same conversation I definitely consider very sexy.

Integrity, someone who is not afraid to say how they really feel...

Any woman who can sing lyrics to a number of Rush songs (as rare as Sasquatch, you just know they are out there)

Women who have a British accent, in fact if you are a British woman and you ever softly said to me "You've been a naughty boy" I will become your immediate slave, you would have complete power over me.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 05:11 AM
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I like when a guy can cook me dinner and do the dishes while talking naughty to me throughout. Being spoiled like that makes me frisky.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 02:24 PM
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Girls. Girls turn me on. Everything else is just icing on the cake.

Edit: I'm a simple man with simple desires.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 02:25 PM
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I don't have a boyfriend, but these are a few things.

The hair on a man's chest.

Stocky men, broad shoulders.

I like my hair being stroked.

When a man touches my face.

A man's hands, I picture those hands on me.

There's something sexy about watching a man cook.

When a man stands and has his hands in his pockets. This one's kind of strange I guess.

I guess I could go on and on.



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Old Jan 02, 2014, 05:34 PM
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 11:09 PM
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Personality wise, intelligence, a sense of humor, and kindheartedness. You have those three and you're pretty much instantly in my good graces.

Physically, I'm not really picky...beautiful eyes and hair I think are I think fall into the pure "blessing" category.

Strictly speaking to sex appeal, I'm not overly hard to please...lol I'm a twenty year old male. You figure that part out. I tend to favor personality over raw physical appearance, though I don't deny the importance of the latter. You could be a Greek goddess, but if you're awful to be around, I won't be. Simple.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 11:37 PM
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physically I love long hair on a guy and long eyelashes if he is intelligent with a good sense of humor then I melt.

As far as my personal turn ons: biting, having my hair pulled, light bondage, role playing, certain ways my husband looks at me and textures like I find silk, satin and velvet highly erotic.
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Old Jan 03, 2014, 09:27 AM
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What turns me on is turning a woman on. Being able to anticipate and DO what she likes even before she's aware of exactly what that is is a major rush... Seeing a woman respond to her arousal is amazing. I love making a woman feel like a vixen. YOW! I guess I've always been turned on by being able to satisfy a woman before I allow myself to surrender to her "charms"... Yeah, big-time. Pssssst! Red Hot!
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