I'm sick of dudes

So some time ago I was going through a high sexual drive. I was meeting and having sex with lots of guys who always treated me the same way (barely talked to me unless they were horny, didnt show any interest in me beyond sex, called me a ***** and said bad things to me) and all those things were making me to not be able to find any value in myself and my life so I was thinking about suicide since they were all careless about me and I was starting to believe that I was no more than a boy to **** and get rid off. I got hurt so bad. However, I have gotten this new attitude of '**** them assholes' meaning that I don't give a **** about none of them anymore. In fact, I haven't spoken to a dude in more than a week and I don't feel like talking or messing around with anybody and I'm feeling fine! I'm giving up on guys and sex, I don't know how long this feelings will last but I hope they last long because I'm tired of guys that just treat me like I'm meaningless to them. They can all die and I wouldn't even care, they didn't care when I was upset and was trying to find comfort, they didn't care if I killed myself so **** them!!!! I feel awesome alone without sex and without guys in my life

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Well...lol guy here, so I apologize in advance for breaking your streak.

I completely understand your perspective...it's hard not to view the population as a whole as bad when the sample you're exposed to is bad...hell, that's how the entirety of statistics works. But they're wrong...they couldn't have been any *more* wrong had they tried. You are MUCH more valuable than what they led you to believe...MUCH. The guys you ran into are, as you astutely noted, complete assholes.

You are NOT just a lay to some guy...you are NOT a "*****" or any of the things they said about you. You deserve to be loved, cherished, made to feel special...you are, to someone, their everything. These "men" who put you through this? They aren't men. I like to believe karma is a swift and brutal beast...that's all I'll say on that. It's not a matter of gender when someone denies help to someone contemplating suicide...it's a matter of basic human decency. I am sorry you were denied that.

I would say that it's important that YOU value you for you, not define your own value on what someone else may (in this case VERY wrongly) think of you. Love yourself before you can love others.

But above all, take this. You are better than those SoB's who made you feel as you did are or ever will be. You're you. That's all you need to be.

If I can do anything for you, don't hesitate to PM me...again, guy here, so I do understand and have no hard feelings if you decline, but the offer stands, now or in the future.

Hugs,
Harley

I am amazed and disappointed that not one of them got emotionally close to you and actually CARED! (Guy here too, no we are NOT all like that. Sorry you had such a horrible experience).

It's because they are boys who can't control their libido. When they become men they will realise they've been acting like idiots.

I'm sorry for your bad experiences
I'm happy that you're now happy

Omg thank youuuuu! I woke up and this was the first thing I read. I appreciate your response a lot, everything you said is so true and helpful, I feel even better about myself now. Thank you for understanding =D

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Yea it sucks! I'm dissapointed that I got across people like that. I should of been stronger and not get attached to them the way I did and make my life and emotions depend on them because they never hesitated to hurt my feelings like if I was a piece of **** LOL but whatever right? There's gotta be something better out there for me, I will just be patient

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Well one detail I didn't mention is that most of them were men over 24, but is true what you say they never realized they were such assholes to me and just claimed to be right on everything they did. Like I never even got an apology becuase they claimed they never did something wrong and there was nothing to apologize to me for. I hope they do realize the kind of people they are.

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Thank you. It is what it is you know. It takes experiences like that for one to learn and mature and realize that the best option is to stay away from bad choices. But I'm glad I changed I'm happy for myself too =D

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It doesn't matter if they were over 54. A boy is a boy, it doesn't matter what his body age is. It's his attitude towards sex and women what determines if he's a man or a boy.

Oh now I do understand you and I agree a 100%

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