Porn addiction

I'm new here even though I joined in June, and I have been considering to talk about my problems but I was hesitating until now. I'm porn addicted and I still am and will probably be like that for a long time. Never even had sex before. Self pleasure seemed much more enjoyable to me, and I have refused sex solely for that purpose, and relationships actually used to make my head hurt. However, I think this is wrong and I should be with someone I love who I'll be willing to share pleasure with. Porn made me actually really want to know how sex feels like, which is by far the second positive I gained from it, the first being self pleasure, the second is that I actually finally decided to be in love with someone. I actually have good self esteem and I have confidence, but afraid of this step so much. So, how do I proceed?

Thank you all for reading.

Please I need someone to help me

I would suggest you start by checking out the group Sex Addicts Anonymous. They have a very helpful website. You need to work out why you are more comfortable with port as to true intimacy with another person. Port addiction is a a way of avoiding intimate relationships. SAA I a great great to help get you started on the right track.

There is also an author Patrick Carns that has written many good books on sex addiction.

Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk