Condoms and the "Well Endowed"

I've only been with 6 guys, but only one of them used a condom. The other guys were "too big" to use a condom...and...I'm not joking. ALL the guys I've been with have had HUGE members. I think the smallest I've been with was 6". The last guy I was with told me that condoms constricted him and were too small for him to wear. He was HUGE. But that's the thing, I love being with men who have BIG d*cks. Yes, size does matter for me, but that's another story. So here is the thing...I love being with men with large packages, but there's always the risk of STDs (I'm on the IUD so no pregnancy to worry about). I get tested after every guy I've been with, but there has to be a solution as to have safer sex. I don't know what condoms to buy. The condoms I have now are "Trojan Magnum: Large-Sized Condoms; Thin Ultrasmooth Lubricant"...is that big enough for the well-endowed? I've never used them before so I don't know if they'd work. Also...how do I keep them on hand? I'm worried to keep them in the car, in the summer it's roasting inside, and now that it's winter I'm worried it will be so cold that the condoms will turn brittle. I rarely ever use my purse and a condom won't fit into my purse...so how do I carry them around?

Thank you for your input!

TheyFit has 95 different sizes but I'm not sure where they top out. I also don't know if this matters to you but I've always had to buy them online because I couldn't find anywhere near me that sold them.

This is going to sound weird but I always carried mine in a mint tin. The tin I could put in my pocket or my bra whichever was easiest. The tin kept them from getting mushed and seemed to keep them from absorbing my body heat.

Hope this helps some

first things first guys usually carry their own condoms, condoms are made and packaged in a way that makes it very easy for a guy to carry them discretely with in their back pockets of their tight behind jeans or their wallets. so there should not be a problem with you carrying one in your purse. they are smaller than tampons and unlike a tampon they are packaged flat. unless you are the type to be sleeping around with multiple number of guys at the same time carrying one or two in your purse should be enough.

condoms do become brittle but not over night. it takes many years of one sitting on a shelf opened for that to happen, condoms are prepackaged with lube and powder on them so they are well protected from drying out while sitting in some guys jeans back pocket. but for those worried about this condoms just like anything else comes marked with expiration dates clearly marked on each individual condom package. (yes all condoms come with an expiration date marked on them.)

condoms are like balloons they look small but stretch so usually even regular sized one fits even the well endowed. condoms are meant to fit snugly so as not to slip off or tear while in use by being too loose.

you can always ask the guy, hey before we go any further do you have a condom on you. most times they will pull one out of their wallet or back pocket well before things reach this point because they too do not want to get some disease.

Lit-Lark, I believe in protecting one's self. However I hate having to use condoms. I lose all feeling and it isn't pleasurable for me. That is why when I am with a person sexually, I am only with that person, all that I have been with either take the pill or use other contraception or are old enough not to worry. I do believe the responsibility falls on both parties, it takes to tango and only one sperm to screw up a good thing, lol. Oh, and a good hide place is your bra, I see ladies stash cash, smokes, ID, you name it I have seen ladies pull it out of their bra's. Take it easy
PS I have only been with 9 woman since I was 15, so I haven't had to worry about STD's, but it is a concern no less; and I am monogamous when in a relationship.

wanted to add that if concerned when men do not want to wear a condom there are condoms for women too. like male condoms they come packaged for discreteness, like male condoms can be used for all types of intimacy. they also like male condoms come in a variety of sizes but usually an average size fits all unless the woman has given birth they might want to use the larger sizing. you get them in the same places you find male condoms,

there is a video on how to use them on the planned parenthood.org website.

Sorry to be so obtuse. Maybe old fashion, but are the guys refusing to wear a condom? Just telling you they don't have an std & ur keeping fingers crossed? Is that why your testing for std's After the fact?

I'm not judging. Just trying to understand & I'd personally have an issue w/someone who didn't wanto wear a condom or be completely fluid bonded to me.
Does that make sense?

Too big? Don't flatter yourself honey! Next time, you should put it on him. It'll fit.

Condoms stretch. If you are getting a large size they should be adequate. It sounds like they are the ones giving you a line. Also I would be pretty careful about sleeping around. There are dangers regardless. You are also indirectly sleeping with every girl that the guy has been with too'

Personally I think the only safe sex is within a committed relationship which for me means being married. With my husband I only worried about getting pregnant.

At least take steps to protect yourself. The consequences of a venereal disease or HIV are too serious to ignore

You can stretch a condom over your entire leg. Those guys aren't "too big" for condoms. They're feeding you a line of BS. Here's the Buzzfeed article of it:

http://www.buzzfeed.com/rossalynwarr...-bi#.swrgKJmVN

If they won't wear a condom, don't sleep with them. They're endangering you and you need to be sure to protect yourself.

Yeah some guys don't like using Condoms. selfish really.

As a man, I say that if they won't wear a condom...show 'em the door. Doesn't matter if you are a man or woman, if you have unprotected sex, you need to get tested. For that matter, to protect your partners you would need to get tested after every sexual encounter. Now that sounds rather burdensome, though having STDs or HIV is even more burdensome.

It only makes sense for a man to use a condom to protect his partner from him and protect him from his partner. Unless a couple is and has been monogamous, condoms are always a necessity.

I have never heard of a one-size-fits-all condom. Otherwise, wouldn't there be only one box of condoms to buy?

Seriously though, I had a BF that had a ten inch wonder and he used large sized condoms okay.

"Try On!" OMG! Would luv to see the secret store footage to evoke that sign. Hilarious!!

Thank you

Yes...large sized. He requires a large sized condom, not a one-size-fits-all condom or godforbid those horrible POS condoms you get at planned parenthood that couldn't stretch over a hot dog.

I too believe there is a need for protection. Being male and was very active for a while I tried all sorts of condoms. While they all fit relatively well, ( I am an average size) my problem was longevity. I tend to last a long time. I am more concerned with the woman first than myself. The condoms would loose elasticity and try to come off, or did. It is kind of a mood breaker when that happens or you have to stop and put a fresh one on. I eventually settled down and am in a committed relationship.

Haha. Google "Condom Challenge" where these kids are filling condoms with a large amount of water and dropping in on someone else head. If it's done "correctly", the condom stays filled with water AND encases a whole human head. It's funny and childish, yes. But it is a very good advertisement for the durability and elasticity of today's condoms.

The old phrase "No glove. No love." is still appropriate. Testing after the fact is really scary with things like HIV and Herpes out there.