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Old Jan 06, 2017, 12:05 AM
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So, its been over a year since I've had any intimate relations with anyguy. I really want sex, thats not the issue. The issue is I'm not looking for meaningless sex. If I plan on having sex with you its a commitment. I dont want to have sex just to have sex. But its coming to the point where I say the hell with my values. The other reason is I have to trust the people I'm having sex with. I dont just want to be a person who gets down and dirty all willy nilly. I am a bottom and that means I'm the one getting plowed, so I think I have that right. How do people survive for so long without it. Please give me some advice.
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Old Jan 06, 2017, 12:24 AM
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I don't know. I guess I masturbate. Not at all equal to the physical intimacy of sex, but it gives me a temporary reprieve and I can focus on other things for a while.
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Old Jan 07, 2017, 09:47 AM
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Artchic528 is right. Masturbate. I haven't had sex in nearly 10 years, not by choice (I'm married) but bought some toys a few years ago to take the edge off. It can be fun and you can get creative to a point!
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Old Jan 08, 2017, 06:33 PM
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I definitely know how you feel. I'm pushing almost 20yrs. My 'partner' is my right hand. And my porn collection is massive.

It's been so long that my cherry grew back.
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Old Jan 09, 2017, 12:30 AM
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I definitely know how you feel. I'm pushing almost 20yrs. My 'partner' is my right hand. And my porn collection is massive.

It's been so long that my cherry grew back.
That can happen?!
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Old Jan 10, 2017, 12:45 AM
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That can happen?!
Not really. But it might just as well have.
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