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Old May 29, 2017, 02:19 PM
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I've decided to add cunnilingus to my sexual repetoire. I’ve never been much into going down on a woman, but it's important for the lady to orgasm. Just penetration alone isn't a good way to make that happen.

So I'm looking for pointers. What are the surest lips-and-tongue routes to the lady's orgasm?
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Old May 30, 2017, 11:00 PM
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Um....the alphabet with your tongue....??

if the clitoris was a clock, the one o'clock position would be the most sensitive.

Use in conjunction with fingers, although I have a problem and "internal" doesn't do too much for me personally.

Learn to use moans as a general guide. Her's not yours.
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Old May 31, 2017, 08:45 AM
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If your not much into it why would you add it?
I don't understand this.
Are you making a resume?
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Old May 31, 2017, 12:53 PM
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If your not much into it why would you add it?
I don't understand this.
Are you making a resume?
I want to make the lady happy. If that means doing something that I'm not much into but I don't really object to I'm down with that (ha ha ha!).
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Old May 31, 2017, 06:26 PM
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So what does the lady say to this? Have you asked her what she likes? Don't forget toys too.
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Old May 31, 2017, 06:53 PM
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Sadly, there is no lady yet. Yes I fully intend to learn some of her preferences before I just, y'know, head on down. But I don't want to make her fill out a form about her complete cunnilingal preferences before we start playing.

So a few pointers a-head of time would be well-cum.
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Old May 31, 2017, 09:46 PM
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Wait, what?

There's no questionnaire?

WTH!

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Old May 31, 2017, 10:18 PM
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Are you making a resume?
But a resume... not a bad idea...
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Wait...you want to present a resume of your sexual activities to your future lady friends?

What are you going to do for references? A good resume always has references.
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 07:17 AM
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Wait...you want to present a resume of your sexual activities to your future lady friends?

What are you going to do for references? A good resume always has references.


OMG that made me laugh!!
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 07:40 AM
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OMG that made me laugh!!
My boyfriend told me he tries to laugh at least once a day. If he doesn't, that'll be the day he dies. I'm trying to follow that philosophy and making myself laugh at least once a day too. I'm glad I also made you laugh as well. Life is so much more enjoyable with laughter.
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 08:54 AM
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I've decided to add cunnilingus to my sexual repetoire. I’ve never been much into going down on a woman, but it's important for the lady to orgasm. Just penetration alone isn't a good way to make that happen.

So I'm looking for pointers. What are the surest lips-and-tongue routes to the lady's orgasm?
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I used to have an ex-boyfriend I had lost my virginity to in the past that would perform cunnilingus on me.

What I really liked was when he messed around with my clitoris. The clitoris is a very sensitive part of the woman and like many sources state, it may stimulate the sexual arousal and make the female orgasm. So I think fiddling around with that would be a good start.

From experience, being a female myself, the touching of the clitoris did stimulate a sharp feeling in me. Not a bad feeling but a very... well... arousing feeling. I will say that my ex flicking his tongue on my clit was my favorite part in oral sex.

But overall I think you should ask the women what they would prefer if you're ok with that. Browsing around sex related forums and reading what woman like in regards to cunnilingus could also help. Everyone likes and feels things differently. Some may not like cunnilingus at all while others do.

Hope this helps with your sex life!
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 12:11 PM
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What are you going to do for references? A good resume always has references.
I'm afraid I don't have any references. I think I need an internship.
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 06:56 PM
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I'm afraid I don't have any references. I think I need an internship.
Hmmmm. I'd suggest one of those unemployment offices. They should hook you up with a good position.
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Old Jun 03, 2017, 06:30 PM
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Just a few ideas.....blowing on the clit, humming while you're at work....ice cubes can be interesting....different positions....edging.....denial (if she's into that)....also sensual play of the inner thighs.

I also know a lot of women plateau, which is normal physically & psychologically, but some women see this as a problem when it's not. So men need to also notice the signs of it & play into it on purpose.
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Old Jun 09, 2017, 10:46 PM
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If you would like a good instructional video try "Jack Lawrence How to eat Pu**y like champ." Very good instructional. It is scientific, it is technical, and it is minimally erotic. It has lots and lots of good clear instructions. My H and I have watched that and it has been quite helpful. It has even helped me, it has given me some insight to my own body.
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