[Salari]

I'm very much depressed what is my sexuality... I'm a 16 years old boy and I find women sexually attracted ( I'm a virgin, never had sex before ). But I guess I'm starting to have some kind of " Bisexual " feeling. This started when one night I was on my bed and started thinking how would a woman feel like getting ****ed in the ****? So I imagined my own **** having a **** in it and those feelings were good & I used to think a lot.
When I was 5 years old, I once saw my parents having sex. I knew that it was something fun & noty but I DIDN'T know it should be done between a boy & a girl. So I called my little bro and was having that gay feeling lol, I told him to come on the bed but we didn't have sex and we weren't naked lol, I was kinda like " HALF on top " on him... Is that gay?
I started masturbating when I was 14 years old ( my friend thought me this ) and was extremely addicted in this ****. Tbh I used to think ONLY of girls that time & I was always dying for girls but as i mentioned above how this " bisexual " feeling came in me. I'm depressed a lot & I heard that if I think only of girls while i masturbate that means i'm straight, well yes.. I only think of them but still i'm so insecure. I don't really want to have sex with a man now but yes, with a woman sure! I think my sexuality is changing cause of my depressions of those thoughts I have? I actually think a lot...
So what's my sexuality?

[Salari]

Bump.
someone pls reply?

I'm no expert, I'm an asexual virgin, but I don't think fantasizing about receiving **** sex necessarily means you're gay. If you want to put it into practice, a girl could use a strap-on on you. Or some other toy/finger/tongue.

Argh, just talking about it disgusts me. But then again, that's why I identify as asexual.

[Pflaumenkeks]

Bisexual person here, maybe I can help
A longing for **** sex doesn't make a man gay or bi. A lot of cis straight guys have it with their girlfriends.
Many of them don't talk about it because they fear that other men will see them as less masculin (except kinksters, but that's a different talk) but it's really not that uncommon.
HOW you want to ***** is not really about beeing straight or gay or other. WHO you want to **** is what unites us as a community and shapes our experiences.
Or in other words: Cis gay guys having sex with trans gay guys doesn't invalidate anybodys sexuality. It's still gay guys having sex, even if it might not be a 2 penis party.

However.

if you feel like bi or bi-curious fits you more, than you would be welcomed in every bi comunity.
In the end you are the only person who knows and can define your sexuality and I'd encourage everybody to experiment with labels and see how they feel. Just be respectful and educate yourself while you do it (great start btw!)

Good luck on your journey

Originally Posted by Salari

Bump.
someone pls reply?

Darling boy,

I began finding pleasure with other boys at the age of five. In the summer of my eighth year I found my way (clumsily) into a vagina (rather than my usual oral/**** entry with boys) and I delighted in my older cousin’s mastery of sharing his salt seed with me.

I answer ‘bisexual’ on census forms but, um, I don’t really fit into the LBGTQ spectrum unless I answer ‘yes’ to all.

My suggestion, then, is to say that you may be like me - agelessly polymorphously perverse - and the only thing that may prove difficult in life is finding other adventurers.

There’s nothing wrong with sexual pleasure. And I think that, instead of asking ‘what is my sexuality,’ you should ask, ‘who am I sexually?’ Anything else is a puritanical label.

Good luck.