Need some Input...

About haveing sex without..having a deep logn relationship. more fast easy going...

JUST THROW ANYTHING YOU HAVE IN YOUR HEAD WHEN YOU THIK OF IT!

thanks

You mean like casual sex? If thats what you mean.....be careful. It messed me up big time, so much so that I hated sex for a long time. And now that I've worked through all that stuff and enjoy it with my boyfriend, he doesn't want it as much as in the beginning.

Go figure. I guess its karma.

Sorry to get off topic....but this is a touchy subject for me. Casual sex really messed me up, in a lot of ways. So just be careful.

lol..i am not saying i am gonna DO ia NO...lol...not at all. basically this is not my thing..i was just curious what people think. that` all. and i still am.

i personally think that you need to know the person well enough to TRUST him especially if you are a female because here men are strong and they can do something violent to you. i was just curious on the whole...hmm. you say it messed you up. o.k you see. it`s like a survery . i don`t have the life experience but i guess othe people do... so i just wanted oppinions

I went through a phase of having casual sex with just about all my guy friends following my SA.
It messed me up, just as Raynaadi said it did her, and I no longer have any respect for those guy frinds or myself because of it.
Personally, I think sex and love should go hand in hand, although I know many girls/women who have no hesitation when it comes to casual sex.

I never understood the concept of casual sex. How is there something casual about it? Even if your are careful, you could end up with a deadly disease or a disease that will follow your future sex life. Also, you could end up pregnant with the child of someone you know nothing about. It is such a shame when people use their bodies just for pleasure like that. Sex should be more than that... course, I'm a 27 year old virgin so maybe I'm not the best to talk...

seriosly 27? woah you kinda made a record!
i hope you don`t mind me saying that!

i respect you i am jsut kinda shocked because I ONCE WAS SURE that i would never have it b4 marriege. but at the age of 18 i got in contact with the wrong kind of a guy who used my innocese and trust and abused me....i didn`t really want to do that. but i was idna too much "going wit the other" than with myself. typical lack of self reliance.

HOW MUCH I REGRET IT
i don`t know if it could be causual sex but it was horriblw and after that i couldn`t sleep at night and had physical memories. it was kidna awhen i remember it it sort of starts almost physically hert. even now it can come.

i totally agree with you about the danger about sex like that. not with the shame hting thoguh. we are a part of nature. think of it. God created us like that and if we need it we should have it.

we shoudl have it in a way that is COMFORTABEL for us.

i just went to a party and there was a guy-goess waht? YONGER than i am and trying to get me into it!! it took me an hour to explain....hehe