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Old Nov 01, 2007, 10:16 PM
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About haveing sex without..having a deep logn relationship. more fast easy going...

JUST THROW ANYTHING YOU HAVE IN YOUR HEAD WHEN YOU THIK OF IT! Need some Input...

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Old Nov 02, 2007, 12:46 AM
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You mean like casual sex? If thats what you mean.....be careful. It messed me up big time, so much so that I hated sex for a long time. And now that I've worked through all that stuff and enjoy it with my boyfriend, he doesn't want it as much as in the beginning.

Go figure. I guess its karma.

Sorry to get off topic....but this is a touchy subject for me. Casual sex really messed me up, in a lot of ways. So just be careful.
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Old Nov 02, 2007, 03:39 AM
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lol..i am not saying i am gonna DO ia NO...lol...not at all. basically this is not my thing..i was just curious what people think. that` all. and i still am.

i personally think that you need to know the person well enough to TRUST him especially if you are a female because here men are strong and they can do something violent to you. i was just curious on the whole...hmm. you say it messed you up. o.k you see. it`s like a survery . i don`t have the life experience but i guess othe people do... so i just wanted oppinions
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Old Nov 02, 2007, 08:42 AM
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I went through a phase of having casual sex with just about all my guy friends following my SA.
It messed me up, just as Raynaadi said it did her, and I no longer have any respect for those guy frinds or myself because of it.
Personally, I think sex and love should go hand in hand, although I know many girls/women who have no hesitation when it comes to casual sex.
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Old Nov 02, 2007, 04:09 PM
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I never understood the concept of casual sex. How is there something casual about it? Even if your are careful, you could end up with a deadly disease or a disease that will follow your future sex life. Also, you could end up pregnant with the child of someone you know nothing about. It is such a shame when people use their bodies just for pleasure like that. Sex should be more than that... course, I'm a 27 year old virgin so maybe I'm not the best to talk...
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Old Nov 04, 2007, 04:18 PM
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seriosly 27? woah you kinda made a record!
i hope you don`t mind me saying that!

i respect you i am jsut kinda shocked because I ONCE WAS SURE that i would never have it b4 marriege. but at the age of 18 i got in contact with the wrong kind of a guy who used my innocese and trust and abused me....i didn`t really want to do that. but i was idna too much "going wit the other" than with myself. typical lack of self reliance.

HOW MUCH I REGRET IT
i don`t know if it could be causual sex but it was horriblw and after that i couldn`t sleep at night and had physical memories. it was kidna awhen i remember it it sort of starts almost physically hert. even now it can come.

i totally agree with you about the danger about sex like that. not with the shame hting thoguh. we are a part of nature. think of it. God created us like that and if we need it we should have it.

we shoudl have it in a way that is COMFORTABEL for us.

i just went to a party and there was a guy-goess waht? YONGER than i am and trying to get me into it!! it took me an hour to explain....hehe
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