WoW, where to begin?

For a very long time now I have found I am very very jealous of those in relationships. Espcially those in sexual relationships. Being 17 I hear its natural to be sexually confused, with me my physical appearance says that, but inside I'm a old man!

Does anyone here other then myself get extremely depressed and more so jealous when around someone whom is very attractive knowing they have a sexual relationship withsomeone else?

This issue is becoming serious...I've been told I don't look bad, yet cannot find a date....mostly because of this issue. You see for me sex is special, I dont want it with just anyone...yet at the same time....I want love...whether its for a day or a eternity and if anything can convince that...its sex.

How do I stop and hold on and just wait for it to come with the right person? I'm 17....yet old...young...yet wise...I'm so conufsed.......

so...jealous.......very jealous....

[drummergrl]

Dustin:
Like I've said before, YOU are good looking and talented, and a sweet character and you have a sense of humor when you let yourself. You fret too much over what other people think about you. You are a vivacious, walking hormone machine who simply needs his FIRST experience
with a woman. You learn what women want when you pick
one who's a bit older than yourself. Not your T who's way too old. And that's not going to happen!!!! Ask your father
what he thinks of the idea. I once heard that fathers took their sons to "cat" houses for that very same reason. I don't know if that's true or not, but it seems to me that that's where a lot of young dudes go for a roll in the hay!!!
You are entering a world of "lust" at this age, and if you don't talk to someone about it, you could get the wrong advice. Talk to your dad. He's the next best thing for you.
Ask him what he did for his first time. Don't be embarrassed about it.....he was once a teenaged hormone factory himself. He can give you honest answers that you
can learn from and explore. Try that son and see if you aren't both on the same wave length.
Good luck.
Don't worry about being jealous, when the time is right, it will happen. Relax! you've got to start somewhere.......start
DATING!!!

drmr

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Dustin:
Like I've said before, YOU are good looking and talented, and a sweet character and you have a sense of humor when you let yourself. You fret too much over what other people think about you. You are a vivacious, walking hormone machine who simply needs his FIRST experience
with a woman. You learn what women want when you pick
one who's a bit older than yourself. Not your T who's way too old. And that's not going to happen!!!! Ask your father
what he thinks of the idea. I once heard that fathers took their sons to "cat" houses for that very same reason. I don't know if that's true or not, but it seems to me that that's where a lot of young dudes go for a roll in the hay!!!
You are entering a world of "lust" at this age, and if you don't talk to someone about it, you could get the wrong advice. Talk to your dad. He's the next best thing for you.
Ask him what he did for his first time. Don't be embarrassed about it.....he was once a teenaged hormone factory himself. He can give you honest answers that you
can learn from and explore. Try that son and see if you aren't both on the same wave length.
Good luck.
Don't worry about being jealous, when the time is right, it will happen. Relax! you've got to start somewhere.......start
DATING!!!

drmr

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thanks drummer

[youOme]

Just wait till you know it's time...you'll know when it's there and you'll know what to do. Don't stress or be jealous because everybody else is doing it. The time will come and it will probably be worth waiting for.