[SweetAngel4129]

I am lesbian and have been since was 14 years old just rather be with an woman than an man.Also am in an relationship with an woman for four years well she has become possessive and jealous if I make new friends or gets mad if I can't be at the computer at that moment.. She also has made remarks about my daughter like if my daughter was in the ground or wasnt around we could have an chance at an relationship. It just saddens me she would say them things about my child when knowing that I am not giving up my daughter for her or anyone.

[Rhapsody]

((( HUGS ))) - I am sorry you going thru this with some one you love...... and IMO it does not matter if it is a man or a woman you are in a relationship if they think of your child as a problem for the two of you then it is not worth staying in the relationship in the long run..... as they could emotionally damage your child (and you) if you stay with them.

[purplebutterfly]

I can totally understand this, if you need someone to talk to just PM me anytime.
(((((SweetAngel))))))

[bebop]

is this an internet relationship or irl? you don't need it. to me that is a huge red flag!! kick her to the curb! there are plenty out there for you without an implied threat.

[SweetAngel4129]

Thank your support means alot to me. Yes I know rather it is an relationship with an man or an woman there can be an very serious problem if they think your child is an problem. That what my soon to be ex girlfriend thinks know it isnt good for me or any family around me when get into an fight with her. I got to end it before gets too much worse. Do know there is more women out there that will treat me and my daughter right. I dont want my youngest daughter to be afraid to have an relationship when she gets grown either.

[SweetAngel4129]

Well it first started out as an internet relationship then became in person relationship. It is an huge red flag dont need the stress or threat to my daughter. Do want an woman who is going to love me and my daughter not act or be jealous of her.

[gege808]

I know what you are going thru with the possesiveness and jealousy.. I am a lesbian too and for some reason every relationship i have been with untill my current one has been sort of like that...i do not have a child of my own but i have been in a relationship with some one who had a daughter....the women you are talking to needs to accept your daughter or forget about being with you....there are plenty other women that are probly dying to be with you...women who will see your daughter as a blessing...If you ever need any one to talk to do not hesitate to PM me..

[iamtwilight]

There are other women out there who understand your child is important to you. I'm bisexual myself, have known many wonderful women, but many possessive and jealous ones as well. =( Just want to let you know there are good people out there.

[AAAAA]

SweetAngel,

As you said, this is a bad relationship. Please don’t spend another second of your time with this person. Her comments about your daughter are extremely disturbing. Your child is the most important thing in your life, and anyone that you spend time with needs to appreciate her as much as you do.