Just worried/disturbed about them

(Took this from my other thread in the survivers of abuse section)

For some reason in most of my dreams... that arent, or not fully, about the abuse itsel, I always FAIL at whatever im doing.

Like I have to keep a baby or small kids safe, but I end up realising I lost them, dont know where they are..

The other day it was with a dog and it pooped inside the house so I took it outside and then back to the bathroom cause it was really dirty and I tried to give it a bath and it was like it shrunk at the end it was so small that it fit in my hand... So i tried to make sure the water wasnt to hot. Then someone came over to look at what I was doing I guess and I realised I didnt have the dog anymore, didnt knew where it went.

Or I end up dropping the kid, accidentally of course.

And once a women just let her daughter unwatched so I tried to take care of it and tell the women its not ok but the kid kept running away and stuff and I HIT the kid...
Sure it was just a dream but I felt so bad about that... I dont want to end up like my dad... or later hit a kid out of frustration or something...

Not sure what to think about these dreams but they upset me, they are disturbing to me...

It seems to me like these dreams are just expressing the fears that you have in real life. It doesn't mean that these things will actually happen to you.

I understand being upset and disturbed about dreams like this, because it's bringing to mind some of your conscious and subconscious fears. However I have often myself been told that it is the person that questions themselves that can be most adequate, because they consider the idea that they could mess up. Or they consider the idea that they don't know everything about the situation, which could make the person less obstinate and abrasive because they will be willing to learn to make sure they do not make the mistakes they fear making.

Or at least, that's a few of my thoughts on the situation... I hope it helped in someway.

a few nights ago i dreamed about a room with in a big circle a lot of people sitting behind tables, concentrating on writing or colouring or somehting. I was sitting on the ground with a couple of other people and i didnt feel comfortable because some guy was looking at me so i sat down in between two people at the table and there he was sitting at the table on the other side right in front of me. And he just had a... unsymphatetic grin on his face and was like perfect place to draw your face.
So i sat down on the floor again and then i grabbed my stuff and walked to my room and i just fell down on my bed as if i was passing out or drugged or something

its an odd dream. maybe it means nothing. but i keep thinking about itanyway

Well a big thing about dreams can be the feel and emotion of them. I've heard tell that it can often reflect how you're feeling in your subconscious.

Hey! When it comes to dreams... I like to use Dreammoods.com if only because sometimes the interpretations are scary accurate to what I'm dealing with in life.

We have both "male" and "female" parts of our selves; maybe your out-in-the-world male part is trying to tell you something: http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclope...in-the-female/

thanks detia ill check that site out sometime.
Perna: im male also, lol