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I didn't sign up for the right pension plan option -- and the mistake is going to cost me $4K toward my retirement. The error is completely mine. If I were a punching bag, I'd hit myself. Grrrrrrrr.
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((( Wants2Fly )))
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ohhhhhhhhhhh. i'm sorry..........xoxoxo pat
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(((((( Wants2Fly )))))))
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There isn't an open period where you can change?
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"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Perna -- It's a complicated situation. If I change on the basis of this temporary 1-year contract, one choice is best. If I am rehired, another choice is best -- completely different from the first choice. So I've really screwed myself! I am dealing with a state bureacracy, and policies and procedures are hard-line with no room for appeals.
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Wants2fly,
I'm sorry this happened. How frustrating... but human; please be kind and forgiving to yourself instead if you are able to at this time.... ![]() |
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Thank you, Echoes, for the support. I am feeling quite despondent and stupid. I don't mean to report on my mood as if taking a daily temperature, but depression is a lifetime problem, and find myself slipping a bit from a state of feeling "okay with life" to despondent, feeling not good enough, that I won't get the job, that everyone is smarter than I am, more accomplished, friendlier, on and on.
Isn't it funny how one good wallop can upset one's tenuous emotional balance to such a great extent?
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