I refuse to like myself

There's no solution.

change is inevitable. i hope you become a person you CAN like, or a person who can like who you are~

I'm not sure if this will help, but I feel like by posting, you're trying to prompt a discussion, if not an outright solution. May I ask why you refuse?

I ask because I have a knee-jerk self-hatred sometimes, and I'm afraid that if I say I like myself, then people will think I'm narcissistic or self-centered. I also have to fight the feeling that I don't have anything to like about myself, which is untrue. Even that can be hard to admit, though.

This is more a vent for me at the time. People tell me I should like myself more. BBBuuuttt nope..

I super get it. Vent away!

That makes things worse for me, like when people tell me something positive it makes me feel I have guilt tripped them into saying something or tricked everyone in some way.