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Old Nov 12, 2010, 03:48 PM
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I'm sooo Angry. its kinda scary. its not an angry you could tell---if you just looked at me---its not on the surface---but...most of the ppl on here have heard of at least one or two of my stories, out of many and I was wondering if people who are violated are more prone to sexual problems...when they get older? I don't think I have too many. I just know I'm angry and have the desire to just use men and get them interested and then drop them like flies...I don't know if this is like a retaliation against the past or what...but, I have the desire to get guys hooked and then just separate myself from them...its a horrible desire but at least I'm honest...most girls aren't.
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Old Nov 12, 2010, 03:49 PM
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Old Nov 13, 2010, 01:17 AM
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Old Nov 13, 2010, 01:44 AM
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thanks.
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Old Nov 17, 2010, 03:30 AM
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The retaliation aspect is understandable, although not a way to create the genuine closeness you apparently want of course. I wonder if another part of this might be you want to get close but then at a certain point are trying to prevent being hurt again?
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Old Nov 18, 2010, 12:30 AM
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it sounds like you are trying to gain back control over men cause you felt powerless over a man in the past
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Old Nov 18, 2010, 02:28 AM
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it sounds like you are trying to gain back control over men cause you felt powerless over a man in the past
Yes. ur right. thats gotta be part of it.
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Old Nov 18, 2010, 02:30 AM
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The retaliation aspect is understandable, although not a way to create the genuine closeness you apparently want of course. I wonder if another part of this might be you want to get close but then at a certain point are trying to prevent being hurt again?
I don't know. I mean maybe. I try not to dive into that "hurt" feeling too much. thanks though.
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so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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Old Nov 18, 2010, 05:31 AM
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Oddly enough, I dont get desires of retaliation(unless I have a moment of reminiscing about exes) but still want to be a victim.
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