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#76
Apr 12, 2011, 05:59 AM
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Thankyou, it means alot. |
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#77
Apr 18, 2011, 10:26 PM
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Sweety let me tell you this I am in a similar situation a previous relationship (ex-usband)constant abuse once choked me till I passed out I woke up n he was laying in bed went to the closet trying to get some things of mine and to sneek out and out of no where he said that I am only alive by mistake count my blessings get in bed n go to sleep or he won't be so careless next time my children have been involved in the abuse as well won't specify how I blam myself for not getting out before he moved on to them... I don't know how this will work for you but it has helped with me when he sees the kids I make out as if everything is great I do better without him and I made the right choice to leave for me n the children and I make sure he sees that (always meet in a very public plac).... Its been almost 4 years since I left and the nightmare won't stop even flashbacks songs people smells all trigger this I have no controll over it I have trouble sleeping at night I left him 9 different times n kept going back after a few months he had me thinking I needed him I didn't realize that he needed me someone to be his little victum no more and you remember this you n I may have to deal with these tramatic experiences that we have gone through in some way or another for the rest of our lives but there is truely such a thing as overcoming something without forgetting it... I do see a sychiatrist no she did not over medicate me I'm not loopy or crazy but you should discuss all concerns with your doctor before accepting a medicine. Medicine may not be right for you mabee just simply getting some counciling, try n be open to getting help things will may start moving smother once you do ... You are in controll of yourself, he is no longer in controll of you! I will keep you in my prayers!
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#78
Apr 29, 2011, 09:32 PM
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thank you, your an amazing survivor!
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#79
Apr 30, 2011, 05:42 AM
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it ended when my son was 18. halleluyah!
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#80
Apr 30, 2011, 08:11 AM
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I hope i dont have to wait another 14 years for peace |
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#81
Apr 30, 2011, 08:19 AM
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How are things going for you now rapidcycla?
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 Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives. ~ Maya Angelou Thank you SadNEmpty for my avatar and signature.
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#82
Apr 30, 2011, 08:25 AM
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i dont know myself.....my ex has ''forgotten'' visitation this week.
So that was good from my perspective. But my son wanted to see him. I really dont trust my ex. Still. But what do you do when a little boy wants to see his dad? |
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#83
Apr 30, 2011, 08:33 AM
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That's got to be so tough, I really feel for you!
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Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives. ~ Maya Angelou Thank you SadNEmpty for my avatar and signature.
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#84
Apr 30, 2011, 06:05 PM
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 Thanks. I hope you are doing well? |
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#85
Jul 10, 2011, 09:13 AM
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i made a mistake. I should never have gone against my gut instincts.
I wont make that mistake agin. |
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#86
Jul 14, 2011, 06:07 PM
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Hi,
I have not been on the site for quite some time. Needed some time for myself and concentrate on what was a busy time and quite a journey too. How are you? How are the kids? Why did you write that you made a mistake? I do hope you are keeping well, I have been thinking about you. |
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#87
Jul 14, 2011, 06:11 PM
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i have just written a new post ''my son'' in the survivors of abuse forum.
I have made a huge mistake. I havent been here much. Trying to focus on my family and deal with whats happening. |
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#88
Jul 17, 2011, 12:10 AM
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I just recenly got divorced. my ex-husband was abusing me and my son. i was afraid 2 say anything b/c he said hed kill me. as a result i got charged w/ a felony of neglect. i did 4 yrs n prison. i did tell but still got blamed. the time i did changed me and now i have a wonderful man and am getting married in sept. so there is light at the end of the tunnel. god bless
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#89
Jul 17, 2011, 12:25 AM
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Let me tell u something young lady. hes goin to go on w/ his life. i was in an abusive marriage and it also involved my son. the abuse with me started 2wks after i was married. my son was livin w my mom and i brought him in that terrible situation. he then bagan abusing my son and i. he told me if i told he d kill me and my son. i did tell and got charged w neglect and did 4 yrs in prison which changed me. my point is there is LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL! have i gotten over it yes and no.do i feel guilty? YES! i have a wonderful man which im marrying in sept. he doesnt abuse me and he loves me. u will be able to feel that your in control and u have the power to overcome! god will help u! good luck!
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#90
Jul 18, 2011, 01:55 AM
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thank you,
Things are hard but i know what i need to do now: protect my son. Thats it Im so sorry for what happened to you, it can be so unfair. but im glad u got through it. You're a inspiration. |
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