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#1
Nov 24, 2011, 01:57 AM
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All I NEED is for SOMEONE to hear me and NOT TRY TO fix it, definitely not tell me to GET OVER IT, or PUT it in the PAST, um, okay, sounds so simple, I NEED TO say the WORDS ( as terrifying as this is for me, as i disocciated for years) and all I NEED back is validation and for SINCERE people to tell me how sorry they are this happened to me.
I GOT RAPED Crying, Never said it before. Ty for listening. Last edited by darkpurplesecrets; Nov 24, 2011 at 03:15 PM. Reason: added trigger icon.... |
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#2
Nov 24, 2011, 02:27 AM
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Desperately need for SOMEONE< anyone to realize how terrifying that was for me, as I disocciated for several years, seperated me from IT, NEVER said the words to a soul after years of theraphy, just wish somoen would be proud of me in myl ife tired of it all
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#3
Nov 24, 2011, 08:03 AM
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I hear you. I'm so sorry that happened you. That was really brave to post what you have. I know how hard it is to talk about. At least you know people understand here and just take your time but keep talking.
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#4
Nov 24, 2011, 01:23 PM
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Hi kmbpeace. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I hear you as well and just want you to know I care. The stuff you are going through is SO hard.My thoughts are with you. Take good care ...
 hugs if okay....kasva
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#5
Nov 24, 2011, 05:26 PM
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Good for you for speaking! Keep talking and we'll keep listening. You're strong and a survivor - obviously. Thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
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#6
Nov 24, 2011, 07:48 PM
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I am sorry. Don't let anyone tell you that they know how you feel, or that you need to get over it, or that it'll go away and be like it never happened. None of those are ever true. Sending you love and support in my prayers.
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#7
Nov 24, 2011, 08:54 PM
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Dear Kmbpeace , say it as many times as you need to say it. Scream it from the mountain tops if you have to. You have the right. I'm proud of you. My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry that you were raped. I hear you. I won 't tell you to forgetvabou it or leave it in the past because you can't. I won't try and fix it because i can't. I won' t say i know how you feel because i don' t. All i can say is that i am so sorry this happened to you. Sending you positive energy and hugs if that's ok with you
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Nov 24, 2011, 08:55 PM
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kmbpeace, I hear you too. You are very brave indeed for posting & I hope you will come back. I hear that it was terrifying & am so proud that you are trusting us by telling us. it must have been lonely carrying the secret by yourself for so long.
Please keep coming and keep telling us what you need. Roadrunner |
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#9
Nov 24, 2011, 09:00 PM
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I am sorry that happened to you.
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The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. anonymous |
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#10
Nov 24, 2011, 09:04 PM
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I hear you too. I am sorry...
*offers soft shoulder to cry/lean on and caring ear to listen/be open too* Plus a safe ...
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#11
Nov 25, 2011, 10:58 AM
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Kpeace, what you said is so true. The reflex that people have to stuff like this is so not helpful. What you are stating that you need is so true. Very good work for stating what you need!
I am so sorry that that happened to you. Do you have a therapist now?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#12
Nov 25, 2011, 02:18 PM
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(((hugs))) i am so sorry this happened to you.
you need healing from this. don't let the past rob your future. i was abused as a child and it tried to paralyze my future. thank you for sharing |
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#13
Nov 25, 2011, 02:36 PM
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Thank you EVERYONE so much, this has been VERY healing for me, even though I haven't told anyone, face to face, not sure might take a while getting there but I will keep trying. I can't even read the word back in your messages back to me without feeling absolutelY DISGUSTING. DISGUSTED. Jamming out the angriest songs I can find lol and gathered up fire wood for a soothing fireplace fire tonight, so healing to me.
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Nov 27, 2011, 09:35 PM
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Hows a nice big bearhug (((((((((((((((((kmp))))))))))))))))))))))))
My thoughts are with you and well wishes too... this healing work is hard! Thanks for sharing a bit of you..... Crew
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Nov 27, 2011, 09:51 PM
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The value of words uttered or written by anyone should never be weighed, measured, and found to be lacking. Anyone who attempts to has something to say themselves. At least you have the courage to say what you need to say. You are truly more valuable than you think. The opinion of others is as cheap as advice that has not been asked for. We al have words unspoken so you just keep on saying what you need. Maybe someone out there will see that you are saying the things they don't have the courage to say themselves. I am so sorry for your troubles as I am for the troubles of everyone who comes here to be heard. I want everybody to be heathy and happy. Bless your courage.
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