Not sure on how to call this..

I'm sorry your left to deal with him alone. I know that's a horrible place to be in, waiting for him to come home. I don't think your complaining. Complaining would be something trivial like the internet went out for an hour or there is a lot of traffic today not I'm really hurting and need someone to talk to. (Safehugs)

What suddenly made you want to join this site and start writing about this?
I find it very curious.
Over the years others have come here with pretty much the same story... exactly the same posting style... and the same pattern of telling about each abuse and the suffering from it, and yet the very same resistance to advice....
and like you, they have come from the Netherlands.

uhmm what?

This is suppose to be a safe place for support not judgement and doubt.

Read Blue96's thread and RubenRawr's thread and decide for yourself. Taking people for a ride is just not cool.

gosh, how weird that there would be more then 1 person in the netherlands dealing with these issues! But no worries... I'm gone! You get what you want!

Why are you leaving?

Not to be judgmental or anything, but there are great similarities to what you are refering to.

Sweepy, the similarites are astounding. Especially when you consider that the way I was able to dig up 'Ruben' and 'Blues' old threads was by enabling the search filter 'threads with the most replies'. Out of the 70 or so pages of threads in this forum this guy's threads were all in the top ten for most replies. He keeps one thread going for ages... 99% of other people don't do that. The wording, the phrasing, the predictability of the replies are all the same.
So what are the chances of three different people in the Netherlands with *extremely* similar stories all posting in the same (but rather unique) manner being real?
Pretty negligible, I'd say.

I have read them and I find that you are correct, they are astounding, very similar format and patterns and family situations, I mean , im trying my best to not be judgemental or doubtful but its pretty difficult , in this situation.

Actually it makes me pretty much upset csa is not a joke.

Same here. I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt but it's hard to with those two threads. If it wasn't true he wouldn't have bailed so quickly when Luce called him out.

I was thinking the same thing, he bailed to fast, like he suddenly was not the shy little boy anymore, could you tell, you could tell he was pissed about being called out.

I felt a few days ago that something was just not right.
Felt it in the pit of my stomach that someone in this situation would not be going on the way they were on here.
I personally feel it was attention seeking. Not real.

God help me if I am wrong but this thread just went on way too long and something just was not right about it.

Yeah I noticed that. His last response was very adult and annoyed not the hurting kid from before.

I also called him out in chat when he was under the name of 'Ruben' (and his 'brother', Alex). He bailed pretty much immediately after I called him out then, too, although I didn't do it publically that time.
I hope there is a way to get this guys IP address banned from the site.

I noticed people are still posting to rubenraw on this site i think, maybe we can tell the mods, this is really disgusting.

I also felt the same way, but was not wanting to judge but then when I read the threads god almighty RED FLAGS I feel disgusted.

I'm sorry I made you think that way. I don't know these people, but appereantly you chased them away too...
How would YOU feel if someone said you arent real because there's more people from your area with similar issues.
If you guys won't even believe me.. What's the point in staying here?
I didn't come here to get called a fake... I was already doubting if i shoud stay here because i don't really like the chat anyways and like you pointed out.. pretty much posting the same thing and can't really find the courage to do what you want me to do wich is tell someone. So i'm sorry if because i got annoyed you think i'm not reall and im sorry that makes you feel bad or whatever..
Thank you for everything you guys DID give me wich is realising more clearly that its not ok what my father does. I'll try and find the courage to do something about it without this site though... U already think im fake anyways just because one guy started doubting me.. So there's no point in staying not for me, definitely not for you.
I already asked an administrator to delete my account.
Think what you want... Thank you for the time I did get here wich was mostly good.
Gosh im rambling agian... Take Care.

Lets just hope that next time someone from the nehterlands comes here you wont chase him or her away because of me.

Well.....I'm someone who has the most replies in this thread.......the other threads had other faithful repliers. I may have spent close to 5-6 hrs typing all the responses....

All 3 threads have similar stories, responses, phrases (stomach hurting....bleeding....burning), names (Casper...Jasper), wordings (idk for i don't know.....atm for at the moment). Someone in Ruben's thread wanted to start a foundation and donate money......someone can easily start a financial fraud like that.

If Cas, to give you the benefit of doubt, you are not the same person.......I aplogise for hurting you. I hope you continue to share and manage to call cps.

But......if you are same as Ruben and Blue.......well....you seriously, even then, need help....crying wolf is a syndrome (HPD??) and you feel that this is the only way you can get sympathy....which is not a healthy way to deal with it. Maybe you are a survivor or child abuse or neglect and wrongfully feel this is the only way you can get "sympathy and love". I hope you do share your "true story" and get over it.

But if you are here to just amuse yourself......then you are really wasting our time......csa, as sweepy said, is no joke and we all have pains to share.
But above all, you are wasting your own time.....coz you can easily write a book the time you waste here.....like oliver twist or thomas hardy novels and get people's admiration instead of fake sympathy. You create believably sympathetic characters. Keeping 3 threads on for months require some real "talent"

Whatever be the case..........I hope you find your "inner peace"

Thank you for that post , I most certainly agree a hundred percent with this.

I notice the op is anoymous now.

His account has been deleted... he says above he requested to have it deleted himself.

To those that have posted here, I am sorry this happened. I do believe 100% that they were all the same person. It truly sickened me to see him doing this to a new bunch of innocent people.

I hope he (whoever 'he' is) does find a way to get real help for his genuine issues. He must have a very sad life indeed to need to do this in order to feel cared about by another human being.