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Nov 14, 2006, 10:15 AM
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guess who wasn't even invited to the will reading let alone mentioned upon it...
he even mentioned my brother who he dis-owned 5 years ago... he even mentioned my younger brother who died 10 years ago... but I didn't get the slightest mention... like I don't even exist, as if I never existed... as if i didn't feel crap enough already with all that's been going on 
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Nov 14, 2006, 02:08 PM
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Hello I hope you are feeling better at this time. The main thing is that you are a person, and that hopefully in time this will not be as strong in your life as it is now. I am sorry that you are hurt but you should not let this one incident deter you from being the person that you can be in life. If it becomes too bothersome you should talk to your therapist and Dr so the Dr can adjust your medication. You do not have to accept your fathers behavior, and i really hope you try to think positive that what happened at the will reading was your fathers decision(for whatever reason), and no fault of your own. WE can not help what others decide to do, and we also can not let peoples decision bring us to their level. You are a good person and you deserve the most sincerity that life can give anyone, just like the rest of us here at Psych Central. I am very sorry that you are going through this but today is the first day that you need to make the right decision, and not let your father stop you from being happy and productive. I hope the best for you. take care Sincerely Soidhonia
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Nov 14, 2006, 04:51 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you.. its not fair....i don't know your story but I know what its like to feel as if you don't matter.. that you are invisible...
I hope you can find a way to not let this kind of treatment define who you are.... erase that recording on your head.. the one he made telling you how unworthy you are.... Wishing you the best...Faith
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Nov 14, 2006, 07:47 PM
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i just can't understand.. even after he's died he finds ways to purposly remove me from "his family", to prove all he said and did to be right...
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#5
Nov 14, 2006, 09:00 PM
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Orion,
My heart goes out to you. That is just awful. It was HIS issue and HIS cruelty.  You did nothing wrong. You didn't deserve that. 
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Nov 14, 2006, 09:03 PM
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it's just futher proof of the futility of life...
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Nov 15, 2006, 02:52 PM
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no.. its proof of his warped mind...and how WRONG he was...
hugs.... Faith
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Nov 15, 2006, 04:43 PM
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Hello I hoep you are doing better at this time. I always regard the type of behavior of your fathers as sheer BS. I always keep this motto handy in case of someone like your father(. What part fof wrong is right. )It helps me to understand that even though people make the wrong decision, it was just wrong and not life condemning. There are many people that have reacted in the wrong manner but it is their wrong and not yours. You are not your father, and you can not control the actions of your father, and if you think as I do, that your father is in control of HIS actions and not yours, you will feel a lot better and can stop wondering what happened, that you were not includud in the will. It is your fathers loss. There are NAMI and DBSA support groups that may help you find some support for your concerns. The hotline number is 1-800-273-TALK if you need to talk to someone about how you feel. I sincerely feel that you should call your therapist and Dr immediately so that they can help you with your feelings. And if the word sheer BS comes up, about how your fathers actions, dont say I didnt warn you. NAMI and DBSA can be found on the internet and are both good meetings and are a lot of comfort and support and fun. I hope the best for you take cae Soidhonia
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Nov 19, 2006, 04:45 PM
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((((( Orion )))))
Don't allow him to torture you anymore!!! You deserve so much love and compassion and don't let one person's mistakes rob you of hope for the rest of your life!
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