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Old Nov 25, 2014, 04:58 PM
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I got in my car and there was a guy sitting in the passenger seat. He told me where to drive and was stroking my leg as we drove
When we arrived he suggested we get in backseat where he proceeded to go down on me and asked if I was enjoying it - I made some sort of moan or noise but no clear answer
He then asked if I wanted him to have sex and I don't recall saying anything and then he did and then he went back to fingering and said he was going to make me orgasm
When he had he left

I had spoken to him once online only and he knew of previous abuse I don't know if I wanted this and now just feel bad or if he manipulated me and abused me or what

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Old Nov 26, 2014, 12:22 PM
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hi bnorty
it sounds to me that you weren't really an active participant in what was going on here, that you were taken advantage of by someone who knew your history. it is really important to be careful about who you talk to online, what you reveal about yourself and keeping yourself safe by only meeting in public places. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome
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Old Nov 26, 2014, 01:49 PM
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bnorty,did you know this person!!! it sounds horrifying that someone could just get in you car and do this to you without your permission!!!! I have to admit it was very triggering and i am sorry for you!!!I am feeling panicky as something like this happened to me but i was lucky and got away. Some random driver took pity and let me into his car and got me to safety. I was so intent on getting away that I DIDN'T EVEN FEAR THIS STRANGER WHO COULD HAVE ALSO HURT ME. I hope you are ok.
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Old Nov 28, 2014, 08:07 AM
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Welcome to PC, Bnorty!

As on PC, it can be difficult to diagnose, sometimes it's also difficult to clearly define with labels specific experiences. Sometimes, it takes a much clearer picture over time, to get the sum of the whole.

Either way, what matters more than the label, is the fact you are safe, now.

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