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Old Apr 28, 2007, 06:15 AM
InACorner InACorner is offline
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If i am not in the medical field...i will not be loved....(thank god i actually like studying medicine)

If i talk...i will not be loved....

If i

what use is this.....

when i wanted (still do) want to be writer my parents said i was lazy and useless...
now i want to be an RN ....they decided to tell me how proud they are of me....how much they love me...
they BEG me to buy me things....things i know they will eventually take back
meh...

there is no such thing as unconditional love.....if you arent what people want you to be...if you dont act like they want you to

Dear God....ever be in the middle of a freaking....tired rant (its 3 am right now) and feel so disgusted with yourself that you cant take it....i mean wow...can i be anymore of a loser than i already am???
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Old Apr 28, 2007, 06:53 AM
CJR520 CJR520 is offline
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If you want to be a writer, go for it !! After years and years of mental and verbal abuse, our mother had surgery and had to go to a rehab center. It is quiet and peaceful at her house now, and Dad is not the abusive person we thought he was. We let her boss us and criticize us, and tell us what to do. She was a master at it. She told us and then our kids who was doing the best. Money was her goal ! So, take it from me, do what makes you happy and enjoy life !! We only go around once !!! Good Luck !!
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Old Apr 28, 2007, 08:41 AM
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(((((((((((Inny)))))))))))))

I understand your views on unconditional love, it's the same way with my parents. I want to be a teacher, they want me in government. blah

Be good to yourself, try to find people who won't value you less for any decisions you make that they disagree with. (Even though sometimes we're stuck with "difficult" family - putting it mildly)

There is no such thing as unconditional love
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Old Apr 28, 2007, 10:05 AM
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inny my sweet inny man i love you
my love is unconditional
for there is nothing you have to be or do to get it except who u are rite now
i love you no matter what
you can never disappoint me
always be u
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Old Apr 28, 2007, 12:04 PM
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(((((((((((((((((INNY)))))))))))))))))))))

I AGREE WITH BRONEE. I SOMETIMES DESPAIR COS I WANT TO HELP YOU, BUT I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT, YOU ARE A VALUED PERSON AND THERE IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE INNY - TAKE CARE

ALL MY UNCODITIONAL LOVE, E.MOM

LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABY


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Old Apr 28, 2007, 07:34 PM
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No one can live your life for you. you have to live it. you have to do what you want with it the best you can. i know it is hard to do what you want with it when there are people critisizing you. i find it hard to decided what i want to do with my life and then once i figure it out. things get messed up.
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