Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Dec 01, 2016, 07:10 AM
Ocean Swimmer's Avatar
Ocean Swimmer Ocean Swimmer is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Dec 2015
Location: Costa Rica
Posts: 2,171
Because this went on for over 10 years it affected me deeply. The person you should be able to trust. Compromise your integrity.
As this happened a long time ago, my last 3 pdocs haven't wanted to explore my pain.
And the ex Pdoc only wanted me in her office for the time it took her to write my perscripsions. Bit@h.
Does it make you feel alone? It does me. No one likes painful memories,but I think if they remain it should be talked out. This move on idea doesn't work for me.
__________________
Bipolar 1
Day Vraylar 3 mg. Wellbutrin 150
Night meds Temazepam 30 mg or lorazepam
Hasn't helped yet.
From sunny California!
Hugs from:
Anonymous37908, Anonymous37971, Anonymous59125, Yours_Truly

advertisement
  #2  
Old Dec 01, 2016, 09:02 AM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: USA
Posts: 10,258
Of course that would affect anyone deeply and you should be able to explore it.

Welcome back! I was wondering how you were.
__________________
"And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!"
. About Me--T
  #3  
Old Dec 01, 2016, 04:00 PM
Ocean Swimmer's Avatar
Ocean Swimmer Ocean Swimmer is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Dec 2015
Location: Costa Rica
Posts: 2,171
Hey Tishia!
I was traveling. Then in CA for awhile. I go to an in person Dbsa group thru nami once per week. The thing with the group is when it's crowded each person gets 6 minutes to share.
I have vivid memories of all of the times he touched himself in front of me. Or dry humped me with a boner.
Coming to my home. My work.
I was young. I had medical ins. I thought I caused it because he'd go on and on how sexy I was. ( I was only 19) he was probably 50.
He got me on opioids. I kept going back for the meds.
I'm not happy I wasn't proactive.
But I had 3 different Universitie professors sexually advance on me too.
The days were different then. Woman's rights had not been taught.
One teacher made me do an extra English composition when I rejected his perverted advances. I said if I didn't? He said he'd lower my grade. I was already getting an A.
I feel like it's the same injustices those boys suffered in silence in Church's. It wasn't the boys fault either.
__________________
Bipolar 1
Day Vraylar 3 mg. Wellbutrin 150
Night meds Temazepam 30 mg or lorazepam
Hasn't helped yet.
From sunny California!
Hugs from:
Yours_Truly
  #4  
Old Dec 01, 2016, 04:04 PM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: USA
Posts: 10,258
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ocean Swimmer View Post
Hey Tishia!
I was traveling. Then in CA for awhile. I go to an in person Dbsa group thru nami once per week. The thing with the group is when it's crowded each person gets 6 minutes to share.
I have vivid memories of all of the times he touched himself in front of me. Or dry humped me with a boner.
Coming to my home. My work.
I was young. I had medical ins. I thought I caused it because he'd go on and on how sexy I was. ( I was only 19) he was probably 50.
He got me on opioids. I kept going back for the meds.
I'm not happy I wasn't proactive.
But I had 3 different Universitie professors sexually advance on me too.
The days were different then. Woman's rights had not been taught.
One teacher made me do an extra English composition when I rejected his perverted advances. I said if I didn't? He said he'd lower my grade. I was already getting an A.
I feel like it's the same injustices those boys suffered in silence in Church's. It wasn't the boys fault either.
I hope society has improved. I had a professor rub up against me, too, and it freaked me out so bad I left school. my sister had a gynecologist go ape on her giving her a 'breast exam', they practically had to peel him off her when she was 17. I wish we weren't too scared to speak up then and get these predators thrown out.
__________________
"And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!"
. About Me--T
  #5  
Old Dec 01, 2016, 04:29 PM
Ocean Swimmer's Avatar
Ocean Swimmer Ocean Swimmer is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Dec 2015
Location: Costa Rica
Posts: 2,171
It is still a big problem. Especially in Other Countries. Child marriages. Butchering woman's clitoris. Wife beating is legal in some cultures. Or no enforcement.
I supported a Battered woman's clinc for a few years.
__________________
Bipolar 1
Day Vraylar 3 mg. Wellbutrin 150
Night meds Temazepam 30 mg or lorazepam
Hasn't helped yet.
From sunny California!
  #6  
Old Dec 02, 2016, 12:36 PM
Anonymous59125
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I am so sorry that happened....that is awful!!!! They should definitely let you talk about it and I would tell them it makes you uncomfortable to be silenced on such a matter. What a JERK your doc sounds like. How unhelpful! (((Hugs)))
  #7  
Old Dec 10, 2016, 11:26 AM
xenko's Avatar
xenko xenko is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: NE
Posts: 223
I'm so sorry you were violated like this. How did you ever get away from him or did you?

My T is a stalker too. A real smooth talker that gets away with many advances he's made. Some day these monsters will be caught. I hope he is out of your life.
Thanks for this!
t0rtureds0ul
  #8  
Old Dec 10, 2016, 08:13 PM
Luce Luce is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Jul 2008
Posts: 2,709
Xenko, can you leave that T? What he's doing isn't okay...
Reply
Views: 952

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:17 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.