Loss of a friend !!!!! :(

Hello all I am sure you have seen my posts about losing my friend , I have lost another friend thanks to her she told him it was her or I... And I will not compete for his friendship I am at a great and terrible loss I am so hurt by this immaturity the two of them are exibiting... Is the truth the worst thing that I can say, Should I really be like her and lie to get what I want to keep.... I cannot do that there is NO way I can't stand liars, What do I do, I miss my friends, I know they are No true friends if they do this but it does not make the loss any easier... I know nobody can help me through this I have to do it on my own, I could use some encouragement though, I just cannot be decietful or lie I did enough of that when I was young.... I don't do that any longer, And I don't know what to do......

((((Troubledone)))) I'm so sorry you are feeling so low.

But try to think of it this way, they are loosing you, and they will probably regret it later...If people are going to be that way then you don't need them as friends, and they were never true friends to begin with.

You know what I told you about P, It goes with this person too.

Sorry this is happening, stay strong, and remind yourself that this is their loss and not yours. I've lost friends before and have hurt how you are right now, but in a few months you will know that you were better off.

Take care girlie.

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sorry you are in this situation.

To thine own self be true.

All others fade away after a while anyway.

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Well I don't know about the friend you just lost, but it seems to me that someone who would get drawn into a "me or her" kinda fight is (1) really immature, like 12-year-old immature and (2) not a good friend in the first place. From what I do know, the first friend you lost was not a trustworthy nor a very caring person.

I know that doesn't ease your pain, though. And I'm sorry for what you're going through!

Angela (SC)

comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable

I saw in your profile that you will be marrying somebody in the military. That sounds to me like the perfect opportunity to start new friendships. No, you won't replace the loss ones, but will gain new friends and that will give a refreshing touch to your life.

Change is good. A little scary sometimes, but good.

gab

I just wanted to say hello and let you all know I am doing better for the most part.. It is still hard but I will make it through you all have helped me through this ... Thx and take care Steph