Sod off you piece of **** What do you want to say to your abuser

This reminds me of a former ''boyfriend'' He was not any sort of ''friend'' ... he was very abusive, 15 years older than me and a whole lot more. I rarely label anyone as a loser, but if anyone is... then he would fit that ''criteria'' In fact, he is a ****ing loser. GGGRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

''Good riddance'' to ''bad rubbish'' (thank you to a family member for ALL those cliches

Get out of my life, jerk He is a pedophile too, Get out and STOP YOUR ABUSE

How nice when a Narcissistic ''parent'' actually acknowledges and appreciates their child's ''talent'' instead of constantly putting them down. How wonderful if a Sociopathic ''parent'' appreciates their child AS IS. (not a freakin chance How fantastic if a ''parent'' offers LOVE and not neglect

I hated myself cos of you,you were a nasty,malicious bully,I hate you now,I can see clearly now you were a stupid larger lout,not a caring bone in your body.
Go **** yourself you moronic,malicious,narcissist,you are not wanted and I was stupid to ever think I loved you,you are a smelly piece of poop!

How could you come over and berate someone over what decorations they have in their bedroom and living room because you disapprove of what someone else has due to your own jealousy? How could berate someone you never met in your life or will never see again? You hurt my feelings. You made me feel bad about myself. You took all the hard progress I made in my life into nothing. Just because you are insecure about yourself and feel the need to bring other people down so you can feel better about yourself. I started hating everything about myself because of you.

You lying, cheating scumbag!

I look forward to the day I learn you are dead. You are one evil bastard. You did so much damage, knew it and took so much from me.

I feel you on this one. I feel the same about my abusive, lying, cheating husband.

How could you come over and berate someone over watching a parades? Just because you don't want to watch it. You ruin the holiday every year. I don't even want to celebrate any more.

LOW LIFE. Now you hang your head low, and for what? To gain my sympathy and attention? I doubt you feel ANY shame, because you have NO conscience. You cheated, when you told me 100 times you never would. I told you today to never speak with me again unless it's absolutely necessary. So now it's the poor me routine with you? Pathetic, absolutely pathetic.

You do nothing but bully people with your narcissist way. All you do is cheat. All you do is steal. You make people feel so bad. No one can do anything right around you. You take your anger out on everyone. You threaten people.

Still here, to **** you off!

You have hurt me, I worked through it in therapy. I still take medications for it and go to groups. I tried to comprehend what happened, I read books and therapists explained it to me, but mostly it just hurts and I have nightmares where I see your face. I hold no resentments towards you and I sent you an amends for my part in all of it. I feel like this letter is letting me wallow in self pity and I thought I was over that when I cried. There's just so much pain and confusion, because I can't remember everything and nobody in authority believes me. I feel so lost and helpless. I'm grateful mom took the keys.

I sent this video to him tonight: I said it sums everything up.

how do you live with yourself? you will always be alone and I will never be your friend

STOP trying to manipulate me with your twisted version of what happened. I know what went down. So don't act like I am naive and stupid. You can no longer feed me your BS lies and manipulations. I see right through them and I see right through YOU.

threats, manipulation and fallacy won't get you what you want. to get what you want- within reason, all you need to do is ask. you threaten me, you threaten the people I care about, you violate me, you are the problem here. try dealing with the situation that bothers you without use of manipulation and lies. you are lying to yourself and you feed on fear. you don't scare me anymore.

Well, I have given this a lot of thought. And what I have realized the most about you is how much you lay bait in hopes I will give you a reason to paint me as the bad one.

Oh I do have a lot of anger, but most of what I feel is "tremendous disappointment".

Mom tried to tell me and it just devastated me. I did not want to believe it, but YOU proved her right over and over again. The things you chose to do are not things I could ever think to do.

You laid so much bait that was so incredibly toxic. And no matter how much bait you lay, I am never going to give you what you want. You needed me to be the bad guy so you can play the victim. I have never met someone so mean and cruel. God, you never wanted siblings, that's why you tried to kill both of us. You wanted them all to yourself. Are you happy now? You had planned everything to enact this sickness you never got rid of. You made sure you got all the control and you made sure to punish both of us in the worst cruel ways too. You got their bodies, control over all their personal possessions, and you took as much of their money as you could and when you were asked to account, you blamed me. You would not even let me visit their home and sit and grieve, it was such an inconvenience for you that you refused to leave me alone. You would not even let my husband be with me, you WANTED to get me alone so you could punish me.

Sorry I disappointed you that I broke down, that our brother could hear you from the basement below and came up to stop you. You were hoping that by having the police there that if you kept baiting me I would get angry so you could run out and play the victim. Instead our brother seeing what you were doing had to go out and ask the police to tell you to stop harrassing me three times. And then he stayed with me to protect me.

I think the only reason I can see the bars on the crib and then nothing is because you tried to smother me like you tried to smother my brother.

No, I am never going to be able to give you what you want. You can carry that evil all by yourself.

Your begging and pleading has no value or meaning to me. You continue to lie through your teeth to me about your infidelity - or is it plural? Was it more than once, and I only caught you with the last one?

I am divorcing you, and there's no way you can ever come back into my life - not ever ever again. Beg and plead all you want. Everything is YOUR doing and YOUR fault. You made your bed, so now lie in it and stop bothering me with your fake tears and your fake remorse. I have a life to lead and a far better life without you in it.

What can I say? I haven't come up with anything useful to combat bpd or dark triad... I just lay low and grey rock my way through it. What do I want to say? Well, that's hard too because I don't want to fuel the fire and that's all any response (off of their script) would do.

Why can't you control your anger? Why can't someone who lives with you call the police and report you for physical abuse and threatened people just so you are force to face your consequence of your actions?

Stop trying to come back into my life. Now you're throwing a pity party? So that I feel bad for you? Now you want me to help you AND feel sorry for you? Sorry, it doesn't work that way. You tore my heart to pieces with your little side fling. That was the last straw for me on top of the abuse. And what do you think would happen IF I took you back? I could never trust you ever again - not with my heart, not with my life or my money for that matter. You're impossible. Please just leave me alone.

The woman who lives above me is a sexual predator. I have re-arranged my life to hide from her. She is sick and should be on the sexual offenders list. I may not be able to change her behavior but I will continue to report her. In this instance her schizophrenia is a terrible and perverted affliction and I believe she should be accosted!

I do not need you in my life and I will no longer care about the fact you have little regard for me and show you don't care,and also I am no longer going to give so much and get so little regards,love and affection in return.If you want me you know where I am its up to you to show concern for me and to make an effort.

Get Lost JERK

I am well rid of a nasty malicious offensive odious squirt.Good riddance you lousy man!