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#1
Dec 01, 2007, 04:57 AM
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Why do I keep having to have these up and down moods?????
I called my mum last night to say hello and tell her we're not going there at Christmas and Iwill talk to her in the new year.... My kids dont like her much....I carry a lot of guilt aout that.... She wants to send them money, and my hubby and I although I told her not to...... Today I feel like running and hiding til Christmas is over and done with, yet I love Christmas.... Seem to be growing further apart form hubby every day again... I just dont know what to do....I try to take my own advice in all these poems and stuff I write....what a hypocrite..... Anyone fancy a lodger for a year???? lol.....only joking NOT..! Jin xx 
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Dec 01, 2007, 09:13 AM
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Oh Jen, you are not a hypocrite. None of us follow all of our own advice. We can only do our best. Sometimes, I just have to accept that doing my best is good enough...I am never going to be perfect.
Christmas is a stressful time of the year. Family dynamics grow more complicated and such. Remember, you are not responsible for how your kids feel about their grandmother. Your mother is an adult--it is something she will need to deal with--you can't force your kids to love somebody.
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Dec 01, 2007, 07:24 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Why do I keep having to have these up and down moods????? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> perhaps you are torn between loving your mom-- and loving your family at the same time? can be confusing and stressful under your circmustances. </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> yet I love Christmas.... </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Oh, I hope you can find a balance in this all so you can continue to feel as you have about this holiday, I admire and dream of feeling as such. an upsetting and depressing time for me. ... as my memories remind me that I'm nothing and should feel guilty to receive a thing....... I agree with Depressedme-- you are not a hypocrite... it's very hard to follow advice--no matter where it comes from. </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> Anyone fancy a lodger for a year???? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> sure!-- how do you feel about the American desert?  jinny  mandy |
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Dec 01, 2007, 08:52 PM
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If I had a passport I'd be there.....
thanks, love you, Kerry xxx now I feel guilty for having such thoughts about leaving my family lol....life
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#5
Dec 01, 2007, 09:54 PM
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I make a point of never following my own advice.
Cyran0
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