Is this rape

I think there could be forums on PC where philosophical and political discussions of rape cases could be explored. I don't know all the forum options well enough to name them but some folks might find that interesting.

Hope you are all doing well this Christmas and beyond.

Take good care of yourselves,

"Hope"

Again,

Sorry to derail the thread. I just wanted to add my two cents and give another perspective.

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Who is OP? Did you mistakenly click on a different thread? I was responding to a thread from a PC person named Dnester. I am not familiar with OP and therefore cannot comment on his/her thread. Now I understand why the posts didn't fit with the thread. I apologize for any confusion/crossed wires...best wishes to you Esmme and to your friend OP

OP = Original Poster (Dnester)

After reviewing the thread again, I realized I read this post incorrectly..

I read that she said, "Another question about a DIFFERENT man". So I do apologize if I seemed to be getting testy or mean towards you for that.

But I stand by what I said. I don't believe "bad sex" is the same as rape.
But good on the OP for leaving him! If he's not willing to make sex comfortable for *both* of them, then he's not worth staying with because he clearly doesn't respect her.

I am the OP. My second question is about the same man. No, I was not aware he was not going to pull out. We were married but I was not ready for a child at that point.

Hey, before I say anything else,
I just want to apologize. I didn't have any intentions of making anyone feel bad, or feel invalidated. So if that happened, I'm so sorry. That was not at all what I wanted.

Thank you for responding! I do understand now!

I pretty much said all that I wanted to say, so I won't say it again.