Confirmed: they lied about my CSA case to make my mom look more complicit

*trigger warning for mentions of emotional abuse, csa, death threats.

They didn’t need to lie, but they’re so self centred and arrogant they need to have my story revolve around them.

You lied about csa to falsely frame my mom to make her look complicit. You said the case was dropped because of her. The court documents I have say something completely different. He was charged, and those charges were never expunged.

You didn’t need to lie. But you couldn’t let me control my own narrative.

They have compulsively and aggressively lied to make me look guilty when I was dealing with harassment from a superintendent. They framed me as victimizing them and lied about how the incident evolved.

They tried to expose my address to my mom just to say I deserved it. Any pushback to their behaviour was reframed as attacking them, and they lied again and withheld what they said to provoke a reaction..

I am angry at them for their unforgivable actions.
They tried to isolate me during my mom’s death. My guess is I might retell what they told me, and they didn’t want to look like a liar..

I caught them in a lie and politely pointed out the discrepancy respectfully. They came back and attacked me personally by calling me a liar, and toxic.

*****, what about you? What about all the ******** you engaged in, and all the lies you told.?You accused me of lying about the abuse that my mother allowed my brother to engage in towards me. You couldn’t let me tell and own my story. You had to possess it, and twist it to your liking, so it was only something you controlled.

You triangulated my brother into the situation because he was the golden sibling in your eyes. You’re a garbage person; you enabled a sociopath to play victim while he denied the abuse.. I was far from his only victim too. He threatened to kill them too. And you made it so he had control over the situation while I had none. I am sure his end game was making sure he got all the money.

I hate you. You are ****ing trash. I’ll be glad when you’re dead. And I hope your way out will be absolutely humiliating. It’ll fit the karma you preach about.

I don’t think I should stay quiet about this. You certainly haven’t in the ways you have smeared me. You should be made an example over this , as you did to me. The difference is I don’t need to lie.

My mom was not perfect and she did allow my brother to physically abuse me. His behaviour played out in his personal relationships.

You couldn’t have me tell my own story and come from my own place of power.

I came to you as a vulnerable youth and told you how they were treating me. I remember you were both horrified. I came to you from a place of vulnerability and authenticity and in the end you accused me of having holes in my memory, and of lying about the abuse.

You seem to have erased your memory with too many margaritas. You have forgotten what I said and you have shattered the trust I once had in you.

Knowing all this now it’s very clear there is a history of manipulation and abuse in our family. The lying and the outbursts are all very familiar to me.

You sided with my brother and projected your toxicity onto me.

You behaved in an incredibly toxic manner.

I think it says a lot about you in your choice to side with him.