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Jun 05, 2008, 05:05 PM
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My husband was sexually abused by his brother who is 2 yrs older. It happened when he was 9 or 10 to I think 14. He won't give me details buts says nothing %#@&#! hapened. I am finding this out after 18 yrs. of marriage. I always suspected something was off sexually. It explains a lot of odd behavior and my sometimes uneasy feelings.
He has never confronted him or told his parents. I have never liked his brother, he's creepy so I never formed a family relationship with him. I recall my husband saying when our son is old enough, he can learn how to hunt with Roger. Of course, I barked, Never happening. I kept my kids from all of them. Now that I discovered my husbands sex abuse from his brother, I am baffled at the fact that he wanted to let my son go with him. WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM!!!!!???????? AND WHY DOES A BROTHER MOLEST HIS BROTHER?????? Trying to figure this out and would love opinions. Thanks, K |
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Jun 05, 2008, 05:41 PM
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disstressed i understand your situation from your husbands point of view sort of... i have been sexually abused by my brother since i was 13 and he is two years and 4 months younger than me... i want my brothers to be part of my childrens life if i have any because they would be family. however i "hope" that the oldest of my two brothers won't do anything funny with them like he did/does to me. i know that is in the wishing things didn't happen category but people can change right? so maybe your husband is using that logic? hope we can help you here if you need anything leave me a message.
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