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ok, i dont know what to think or do..
tonight we went to a friend's stag and doe and my bf got absolutely, disugustingly, RAGING DRUNK. we ended up having to leave the thing because he was so rowdy and wanted to fight somebody, anybody almost.. on the way home you dont even want to know.. my $50 Roots purse is full of you can guess ... ruined. 50 $ is 50 $ man haha..anyway we got home, he passes out on the bathroom floor on his back which is very dangerous right?!! %#@&#!.. anyway so im trying to get him to sit up not being a ***** or anything just dont want him to die god.. and he pushes me across the bathroom into a plastic bin i have, now i have a cut and a huge bruise and my bin is shattered.. i gave up on trying to get him to sit up and just wanted him to at least roll over.. so he horks in my face(after he's thrown up at least 5 times.. not nice..) and punches me, calls me a "stupid ****in %#@&#!, i hate you"... and thats that... this has never happened before. what do i say to him? like.. idFk..? what happened, could he honestly feel like this and just be ballsy enough to say it cuz he's drunk? ahh, someone help |
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Sometimes when people get drunk they do really stupid things and say even stupider things. I don't know if he really meant what he said, but you can talk to him about it when he's sober and not hung over (which I am sure he is/will be).
I said and did a lot of things I didn't mean when I was drunk (that's why I don't drink anymore), but there were also times where I was more honest to people....depends on him. Does he drink like this a lot? Maybe he has a problem and he needs help from a professional? In no way am I trying to justify what he did, I am just thinking he might need help. You do NOT deserve to be treated that way at all, no matter if the person is drunk or not....it's abusive. I would even tell him that he needs to get you a new purse! The same one you had! If it were me and my BF, I would tell him exactly what happened and how you feel about it. I would not ever put up with that again. I would tell him that if he ever did that again, I would leave. IDK, just my two cents worth. Good luck and I hope you can talk to him soon about all this mess he created (Literally). BJ ![]()
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I agree - and replace that bin of yours, too.
It's up to you if you want to try again with him or not -but like BJ said, if it ever happened again i'd say i'm outta here. (if there is a next time, he could really give you serious injury or death!) Hope you're ok!!! Kiya
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Once is enough is what I have been told.
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