Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jul 06, 2008, 02:55 AM
hmmph hmmph is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: May 2008
Location: Canada
Posts: 16
ok, i dont know what to think or do..
tonight we went to a friend's stag and doe and my bf got absolutely, disugustingly, RAGING DRUNK.
we ended up having to leave the thing because he was so rowdy and wanted to fight somebody, anybody almost..
on the way home you dont even want to know.. my $50 Roots purse is full of you can guess ... ruined. 50 $ is 50 $ man haha..anyway
we got home, he passes out on the bathroom floor on his back which is very dangerous right?!! %#@&#!.. anyway so im trying to get him to sit up not being a ***** or anything just dont want him to die god.. and he pushes me across the bathroom into a plastic bin i have, now i have a cut and a huge bruise and my bin is shattered..
i gave up on trying to get him to sit up and just wanted him to at least roll over.. so he horks in my face(after he's thrown up at least 5 times.. not nice..) and punches me, calls me a "stupid ****in %#@&#!, i hate you"... and thats that...
this has never happened before. what do i say to him? like.. idFk..? what happened, could he honestly feel like this and just be ballsy enough to say it cuz he's drunk?
ahh, someone help

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jul 06, 2008, 11:06 AM
onlymedid's Avatar
onlymedid onlymedid is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Dec 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 2,856
Sometimes when people get drunk they do really stupid things and say even stupider things. I don't know if he really meant what he said, but you can talk to him about it when he's sober and not hung over (which I am sure he is/will be).

I said and did a lot of things I didn't mean when I was drunk (that's why I don't drink anymore), but there were also times where I was more honest to people....depends on him.

Does he drink like this a lot? Maybe he has a problem and he needs help from a professional? In no way am I trying to justify what he did, I am just thinking he might need help.

You do NOT deserve to be treated that way at all, no matter if the person is drunk or not....it's abusive. I would even tell him that he needs to get you a new purse! The same one you had!

If it were me and my BF, I would tell him exactly what happened and how you feel about it. I would not ever put up with that again. I would tell him that if he ever did that again, I would leave.

IDK, just my two cents worth. Good luck and I hope you can talk to him soon about all this mess he created (Literally).

BJ is this serious?
__________________
"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open."

Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
  #3  
Old Jul 06, 2008, 12:54 PM
Kiya's Avatar
Kiya Kiya is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Oct 2007
Location: Out of my mind...back in 5 min.
Posts: 10,370
I agree - and replace that bin of yours, too.
It's up to you if you want to try again with him or not -but like BJ said, if it ever happened again i'd say i'm outta here.
(if there is a next time, he could really give you serious injury or death!)

Hope you're ok!!! Kiya
__________________
Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image.



is this serious?alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
  #4  
Old Jul 06, 2008, 04:00 PM
crazy1's Avatar
crazy1 crazy1 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2008
Location: Ohio, Akron
Posts: 94
Once is enough is what I have been told.
Reply
Views: 294

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:42 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.