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I was talking to my aunt last night. I was telling her about her nephew (my cousin) who molested his sisters and my sister and I. Compared to what happened to me before it wasnt a big deal 2 me. But she said every family goes though this. Its normal. He was a teanager. I told her shes wrong. Its not normal. I refuse to say it was. SHe isnt right is she?

No it is not normal, she is very very wrong.....

You are right to stick to your guns well done !

Trish.

[MINIME]

Thanks trish. I dont know why she thinks this. She was abused by her father and she knows thats not normal. SHe says if people make a biig deal about brother sister cousins ect abuse then it makes it bad for the offending party. The abuse was nothing compared to what had happened to me before but it still was wrong.

With all respect to your aunt she is off her head. Call it conditioning I dont know but she sure is wrong, maybe thats how she copes with the abuse that happend to her ? By seeing it as normal ? Who knows just accept you are right ......

[Slippers]

She is very wrong. They lock up teenagers for sexually abusing children. Juvenile detention centers hold many sex offenders.

You were right to stand up to her ignorance!

S

[nightbird]

Yes!!!!! You are correct and your aunt sounds like she has some moral bankruptcy
going on - in this department!

Too bad about people who can change things and do not!

You are right as rain.

peace and comfort,
night

[youOme]

It's not normal. Maybe it's normal if a two little children look at one another or maybe even touch in a non sexual way, meaning toddlers or something. But for a teenager to touch younger children...NO, that is not normal at all.

[MINIME]

I knew it wasnt. I just wonder how some people come to their conclusions. For someone who was abused like her she should be more educated. Oh well.