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Old Mar 06, 2008, 01:50 AM
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We are really having a hard time and need a safe place to just be. A place where there is no hurt and where someone will just be there with us so we are not alone.

We do not need to bring anything as right now we are having trouble being able to do anything, but we just do not want to be alone. You do not have to stay long--just for awhile until our fear subsides.

We promise not to take too long. Just a little time that is all.
Thank you so much.

camiandinsides

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Old Mar 06, 2008, 08:13 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((cami))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am here right beside you sitting quietly. I will stay as long as you like holding your hand if it is ok. It is so peaceful and safe here.

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Old Mar 06, 2008, 09:48 AM
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we are here too, cami, we're all sitting here together looking at the stars
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Old Mar 06, 2008, 10:51 AM
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Old Mar 07, 2008, 05:43 AM
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Sitting with you tooo!!!
I have no alters but wish I did......
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Old Mar 07, 2008, 06:18 AM
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((((((((cami))))))))

Hey, I'll sit with you, cami. I get scared a lot too and it's nice in here. Would someone please go to the garden with us...............................

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Old Mar 07, 2008, 10:34 AM
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((((cami)))) I will sit with you for as long as you want... You are safe in my heart... dear one...
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Old Mar 07, 2008, 04:30 PM
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we will sit with you for a while. we don't have to talk, can just sit quietly and watch the garden move around us. very peaceful and safe. if we sit here long enough, the garden will soothe our souls a little bit. ease things inside.

sitting quietly with you.
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.
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Old Mar 09, 2008, 01:11 AM
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wis wils sits wits us gys ifs bs kk
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Old Mar 11, 2008, 01:58 AM
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THank you all for sitting with us. Would you continue to sit as tonight is another night of needing to know someone is there. I just need to know there is safety and those who will not leave us and will stay.

The night is here and it is dark as we walk to the garden door. I can see the light barely as we walk towards the gate. The moon shines through the trees and we feel as though it will be safe here. No one followed us here, so it would be safe.

Thank you again for sitting with us.

camiandinsides
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Old Mar 11, 2008, 03:28 AM
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we are here (((((camiandinsides))))))

we will sit with you, it is safe here.
let's sit by the beautiful fairy pond that pegasus made, shall we ?
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Old Mar 11, 2008, 07:33 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((cami)))))))))))))))))))))))) I am here sitting quietly by your side for as long as you like. May we find safety in each other.

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Old Mar 11, 2008, 12:07 PM
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I'll sit with you too.

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Old Mar 11, 2008, 01:49 PM
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(((((((camiandinsides))))))

I am here with you sweet friend. I'll just sit quietly here with you and we can just "be". I hold my hand out to you if you need someone to hold onto.

I love you dearly sweet one. We will sit here as long as you would like. The garden is lovely and twice as lovely when shared with a friend.

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Old Mar 12, 2008, 01:18 AM
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Thank you all again. Your support at a time like this is more appreciated than you know. We are going to remain here where it seems safe. Scared hardly seems the right word for explaining where we are right now. Just will lay here under this tree and fine comfort.

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Old Mar 13, 2008, 04:20 PM
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Old Mar 13, 2008, 08:01 PM
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cammi i would lve to sit wiht u anytime you wish i love you my friend.
i hope u feel better soon, i am here always holding your hand, feel free to pop into chat, i will be there. and feel free to ask for a private room too even if it is just to sit, id love to sit with u when u feel bad hon
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Old Mar 13, 2008, 09:17 PM
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I feel your pain, I hope things get better for you real soon, just know you arenot alone, I feel safe to say that everyone here is with you in their spirit. Love to ya.
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