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Idrk where to put this so I'll try here but there's this guy in my high school who I like and he likes me. Only problem is he might get kicked out and sent to another town because of grades so he said he doesn't want to get into a relationship if he's leaving. I understand and I'm okay with his decision but I just idk I love him and I really hope he doesn't leave, idk what'd I'd do without him, he's my best friend.
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How old are you, doll? You seem pretty young. Crushes come and go so I wouldn't get too hung up on this love. Love is very different when you're young. If he is leaving to another town why can't you two still maintain a friendship? Email or text and see eachother on weekends. Don't stress too much, tell him how you feel and let him know you'd like to stay in touch if he goes.
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He is not that into you. Or else he'd be trying hard to improve the grades in order to stay.
There will be lots of others for you, fear not. |
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I actually think he might ask me out he's been talking more about "us"
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Although harder...true friendships last distance or no distance.
At the moment your thinking you have to make a decision before he leaves...you don't. Give your friendship tine to grow, and even if miles apart later on if it develops into something more either of you could always move. Right now, be a friend, to yourself by not putting pressure on yourself and to him by showing you understand and care enough to let him go. Sent from my GT-I9305 using Tapatalk
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